7 Fantasies She Has That You Don’t Know About
Men are not the only ones who have sexual fantasies, women have them too. In fact, some female fantasies you may be surprised to hear. Some may be romantic, others extremely naughty, and still others rather shocking! Deciding to tell her partner about these fantasies can be a gamble, as reactions to them can vary. If your lover confesses to a fantasy you find strange, don’t judge, remember fantasies are just that! However, if you like the idea you may have just found some new things to try in your bedroom.
1. THREESOME WITH ANOTHER WOMAN
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Even women who are 100% heterosexual can sometimes fantasize about what it would be like to have a threesome and include another woman in the mix. The idea of having her partner there sort of stabilizes the situation a bit. In many cases the fantasy may not involve her partner actually penetrating the other woman, however, the idea is enticing to many.
2. THREESOME WITH ANOTHER MAN
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Not a popular one to bring up to a partner, but having 2 men at the same time is as enticing to many women as the idea of having 2 women is to men. The notion of having the attention of more than one man at the same time is erotically charged. Keep in mind this likely has nothing to do with her desiring another man over you.
3. LESBIAN SEX
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Occasionally, a woman just fantasizes about having sex with another woman without her partner around, or simply having him watch. Experimentation with lesbian sex is a very prevalent fantasy that often will also arouse her partner if it is discussed. Keep in mind just because she expresses an interest in this fantasy doesn’t mean she is a lesbian, bi-sexual or that it will actually happen.
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4. BEING SUBMISSIVE / BONDAGE
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A more standard fantasy is being a submissive participant in a sexual scenario, including bondage on different levels. Women who have bondage fantasies or the urge to be submissive can find it hard to discuss with a partner for fear of being looked at like a weak woman. Truthfully, many women want to experience being dominated by a man as it suggests how desired she actually is.
5. ANAL SEX
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While this may seem a little run-of-the mill for some readers, the truth is some women have never had anal sex, but fantasize about it. They are curious as to the feeling, the pleasure or pain, the reaction of their lover, and the taboo aspect of it. Seems easy enough to bring this fantasy up to a partner, but for some women the idea is very intimidating and even scary.
6. SEXUAL SURRENDER
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Not necessarily being RAPED by some unknown person, but instead being taken forcefully by someone she trusts. Rape fantasies are scary to admit to because no woman would ever want to be raped. It is brutal and awful. However, the idea of a man taking what he wants, sexually, can be very arousing for many women. If your lover brings this up to you it clearly shows she trusts you.
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7. BEING EJACULATED ON
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While this may be a big thing in porn, in real life not too many women are begging their partners to ejaculate on their face or chest. The fantasy of having their man cum on their face is an awkward one because women often suggest that this act is very degrading. The truth is, if a woman wants or consents to any activity it is not degrading at all, as it is her choice and desire.
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I can relate to number 1,4, and 7! Number 1 is my wife’s main fantasy but she only wants to be the receiver not the giver! The only thing that may happen other than penetrating my wife, is both women giving me a BJ., but only if she even lets the other woman join her! The only problem I see in this fantasy is, what woman would go for having to do all the giving while her woman hood is off limits, my wife wants the woman to go down on her, but she will not go down on the other woman or penetrate her with a sex toy and I definitely can’t touch the other woman? As for number 4 my wife did bondage once with her ex, but ruined it for me or anyone else! Her ex tied her spread Eagled to the bed and blindfolded her then left not just the bedroom, she heard him leave the house and was gone for 4 hours! She was scared, didn’t know if he locked the front door, what if the house caught fire, and worse what if she had to go to the bathroom. When he returned home she yelled at him to untie her and told him, he would never do that again because she’d cut his balls off, and has never been tied up since! Number 7, the only places I have not ejaculated on my wife is above her neck and her butt hole, everywhere else has been covered wit cum at least once, breasts, stomach, and Vagina a whole lot – inside and out!
Joseph. I am 72 and had my prostate removed 10 years ago. It took more than a year for me to get an erction and then only with help of 150 mg of Viagra. A lot of foreplay using hands and mouth are required. I always thought foreplay was the best part. Ask your wife to gently message your balls with her fingertips, When she strokes your penis pay more attention to the head than the shaft. You can still have an orgasm without a strong erection. Its known as a dry orgasm since there is no ejaculation. Your penis will never be a big as it was before surgery but with enough foreplay you should be able to have intercourse. You may have to try different positions to find the best for you. We have found it best if my wife lays on the edge of the bed while I stand on the floor next to the bed. Good luck.
67 years old and haven’t had any Physical relationship with my wife in 15 years.
I do have ED in part cause I had prostate surgery. I know the are alternates to sex without intercourse/erection. I also know there are some “cures” for ED some of which include surgery.
Need help and advice!🙏
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