How Sex Mantras Changed One Women's Life

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Columnist and celebrity publicist, Jana Hocking says that nowadays many women are finding it difficult to get out of their heads and back into their bodies during sex.

In fact, women still aren’t experiencing orgasm  as much as they would like to and not nearly as much as their male partners. Hocking says she believes this is due to society’s constant negative messaging about how women’s bodies should or should not look. Suggesting that insecurities about weight, cellulite, boob size, and butt size are keeping women in their heads and preventing them from fully enjoying the pleasures of sex.

Because of this, Hocking says she has started repeating mantras to herself during intercourse to keep herself focused on her body instead of her insecurities, and says doing so has completely changed her life.

So next time instead of faking an O and getting on with your day, take your pleasure into your own hands and repeat after me; “I am present and I am a sexual being worthy of fulfillment,’ (New York Post, 2023).



Hocking, J. (2023, May 11). I repeat this ‘sex mantra’ to myself during intercourse and it’s completely changed my life: Jana Hocking. New York Post.

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  • dreamwish

    I am glad you shared this experience. I think there are many reasons women are not experiencing the pleasures of a quality sex life. First, I think for some, it is the stage of life in which they find themselves. In the late teens and early 20’s women are discovering the beginnings of pleasure. Many are told, before marriage to not touch themselves, that pleasuring yourself is ‘naughty,’ and they do not know how to orgasm, don’t know what an orgasm feels like. When with a man, and they fail to feel that pleasure explosion that men experience, the ‘fake it,’ as their partner sends the message that they ‘should’ have enjoyed it! When a woman is honest and says she didn’t feel anything, or at least did not feel that ‘high,’ their partner often gives the impression there is something wrong with them. Statistics suggest that a great percentage of young women never experience orgasm. This can also be caused by the hormones of birth control other issues too many to get into here. Next phase of life – marriage, kids, finances, etc., the stresses of making a living. Third stage – menopause – the hormone changes and the decisions related to hormone replacement – to replace or not replace —along with divorce, family conflicts, kids grown or almost grown. Next phase – 50s and older, life changes, if divorced or separated not having a partner and back on the singles scene, navigating the challenges of approaching aging and retirement. Each stage can bring enlightenment and new insights; it was in this stage that I discovered my sexual side. I had divorced, had a secure job and the Internet. I was re-examining my life and wanting to feel more pleasure.

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