The B Yours Bonne Beads are a fantastic starting point for those wanting to introduce themselves to the pleasures of ben wa balls. They are a slightly greater diameter than other ‘beginner’ type balls I’ve used in the past, which provides a delicious full feeling once inserted.
I decided to give these the old college try, and slipped them in before heading out on errands. For me personally, a ball needs to provide a subtle full feeling that results in just enough arousal to get and keep you wet, but also must be completely comfortable to wear. This means no chafing by the pull cord if present and not so large or heavy that it’s beyond my physical ability to hold them in during say, a sneezing fit, or if I run into that friend who makes me laugh like I’m half in the bag on a Friday night. (You know that friend! Always getting you into trouble!)
These little pleasures met all my criteria but one. They’re plastic so on the lighter side but easy to insert (I recommend lube, or an orgasm first… or both!) But they are loose-weighted inside each ball, so they ‘vibrate.’ Each movement gives a gentle reminder that they’re there. If you're like me, when no one is looking you might find yourself rocking a bit, just to get that wonderful stimulation.
Holding them in added a lot of sensual pleasure to my usually ho hum errands. I enjoyed the feeling of being aroused while doing normal daily tasks. These babies are also connected to one another with enough length in the string to allow them to move around and against one another somewhat freely; this adds enormously to the stimulation and is a huge plus.
Sexy playtime aside, some people use ben wa balls as a kegel workout. Not only do they stimulate you sexually, but as your pelvic floor muscles clench to hold them in place you are also getting a fantastic workout that will aid in bladder control. It’s also theorized that better kegel strength and toning makes for better orgasms. Any way you cut it, you can’t go wrong with a workout that feels like fun!
My only dislike here is the rectangular piece of hard plastic that holds the loop together and stays outside your body. It may be a non issue for many, but for me the sharp edges were irritating. This really cut down on how long I was able to tolerate wearing them.
Over all, though, I would give this product a 4 out of 5 rating. For the cost, the size, weight and ease of use are excellent for the kinkster on a budget.