How to Suck the Clit (4 Amazing Benefits of Clit Sucking)

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The clitoris is very similar to a penis with all of its nerve endings piled into an even smaller area. When it is stimulated (via tongue, fingers, toys, or rubbing) blood rushes to it and the clitoris becomes engorged and very sensitive.

When you suck on the clit (as opposed to just licking) it speeds up the engorgement quite a bit and causes the clit to become more sensitive at a faster pace. Here are the reasons from real people who have a clit on why you need to start sucking on your partner's clitoris if you haven't already. 

1. There's No Other Feeling Like Someone Sucking Your Clit

Having your clit sucked on feels AMAZING! While everyone prefers different pressures when it comes to any clitoral stimulation, the simple act of sucking on the clitoris (whether lightly or with more pressure) feels so good! Seriously, if you've never experienced it you need to try it out!

Try The "Suck & Release" Method: The “suck and release” method of clitoral sucking, is simple, but effective. Gently suck the entire clitoris into your lips. Once the entire top of the clitoris is in your mouth, start flicking your tongue up and down and release. The action of slowly sucking the entire clitoris into your mouth is an incredible build-up. When you flick your tongue for a bit and then release, it feels incredible!

2. It's A Different Sensation, Sometimes Better

Variety in oral sex is really important! When you use different techniques, pressures, methods – it will increase overall pleasure. Adding suction to the mix is a sure-fire way to get your partner trembling beneath you and begging for more! Especially if you are usually a “licker” this will change up the sensations quite a bit and ultimately feel more intense for your partner!

Try The "Wet & Wild" Method: This one is a bit difficult to explain, but it is an incredibly arousing method! This is perfect for when you just start performing oral sex on the clitoris to get the stimulation going.

Get a lot of spit going in your mouth. (Not enough spit? Put a flavored lube, like the Strawberry Flavored Lube shown below, on the clitoris for a little yummy help!) Gently wet your partner's clitoris with your spit and rub it in, this will combine with their natural wetness. The rubbing alone will have your partner's head spinning.

While your mouth and your partner's clit is still wet. Make a small "o" with your lips, place your lips around your partner's clit and breathe in (vs. a hard suck with your mouth - if that makes sense?)

Don't worry about doing anything with your tongue, move your lips side to side a bit vigorously (keep in mind, there is no direct contact with the clitoral hood right now, just the clitoris sucked into your lips.) The wetness combined with moving your head side to side vigorously will cause your lips to graze her clitoral hood directly. This feels amazing during the beginning of an incredible oral sex session!

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3. It Helps You To Have An Orgasm Quicker

While a light touch on the clit can definitely bring pleasure and get your partner very stimulated, sucking hard on your partner's clit is more likely to elicit an orgasm! While simply sucking is not a guarantee for orgasm because everyone is made different, it is often very successful!

Since using your entire mouth and tongue can bring your partner to orgasm faster (if your partner prefers it this way) – sucking may be the way to go! 

4. If You Struggle Coming To An Orgasm, This Might Be Able To Help

Not everyone reacts to general clitoral stimulations (oral, fingers, toys) the same and some even have some difficulty achieving orgasm through oral stimulation. This is SO common and totally normal. It can even depend on the mood! Clitoral sucking can sometimes help your partner to achieve orgasm if they usually experience more difficulty with climax.

The direct stimulation combined with the clitoral engorgement and the variety in sensation that can’t be replicated in any other way makes clitoral sucking extremely effective for inducing orgasm in someone who can have a difficult time having an orgasm. So, if you or your partner are getting a bit frustrated, why not take a different approach and start sucking on the clitoris? You can also add a stimulating clit gel to combine with these techniques. Try putting a dab of one of clitoral cream on the clit before diving in!

Here's a Bonus Tip!

One last tip for those of you with partners with a clit . . . get a new toy! This will be a lovely surprise. Not only does it show you're thinking about them but if you get one of our best clit sucking toys your partner can still get those amazing oral sensations if you're away on a trip. Or, you can use the toy on your partner and sit back and relax as they enjoy the sensation. It's a win-win situation. Here is our Best Selling Clit Sucker:

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Have You Ever Tried Sucking On A Clit? Let Us Know Below!


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  • Tom

    I’ve had a lot of practice on eating pussy and I love it I’ve been told by several women that I’m the best pussy licker they have ever had I love the smell the taste yes I suck the clit rub my nose all over and I sweat they cum over and over again till they can’t take it love licking up the sweet cum


  • RL

    I have developed a technique where I slowly draw in my lovers clit and gradually increase suction and lip movement until I am replicating a baby suckling. The more she gets going the quicker the suckling. Be careful however if you try this, Over time the lover wants it more and more and will have many multiple orgasms. Sometimes she asks to be gently restrained to keep form hurting either one of us.


  • Patd13

    I love eating pussy. When she orgasms it differently pleases her and me.


  • Rog

    Well well, not sure if this qualifies. Anyway, I love licking, sucking & fingering her pussy. I’m not sure if she does, she hasn’t said that she doesn’t. She moans, groans, while ooooooing & ahhhhhhhhing . She keeps my head down there while enjoying the deed. But she never cums , not sure what else that can be done. It’s been quite some time since we see each other, yeah we don’t live together nor are we gf or bf.


  • Shelly

    I loved getting my clit sucked. 2 fingers in my pussy at the same time with 1 in my ass hole. The best!


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