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Tongue Toys Versus Oral Sex

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info

MMmmmmmmm, oral sex! We women love it for many reasons. Firstly, it feels A-MAZ-ING! Secondly, it is sometimes the only way we can orgasm because of the very direct stimulation it gives our clitoris. Finally, it is an extremely stimulating sensation that is really hard to replicate – at least not easily. So, when we do not have a partner who can provide us with the tongue teasing we desire what do we do? Are there toys that can replicate oral sex and are they as good as real oral sex is?

There are a variety of “tongue toys” available to give women the experience of oral sex. Some are simply shaped like a tongue – long and beveled for that “stiff tongue” feeling against your clit. Others are softer, more pliable, and give the user the sensation of “licking” softly. Still others are rapidly moving, powerful, directly stimulating “tongue-like” vibrators that may not feel like a tongue but who cares – they are GREAT vibrators! The fact is, if you want something less like a vibrator and more like a tongue – you have options.

So, can any of these tongue toys ACTUALLY replicate oral sex? The easy answer is NO. Just like no toy can take the place of real sex with a real partner – no tongue toy can take the place of a real tongue during actual oral sex. That being said, can something come, well, close enough?

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The first fairly obvious difference between a vibrator and a real tongue is that a tongue will provide wetness through saliva and such, whereas a vibrator, well, won’t. Sure, you could use lube with your tongue vibe (and, honestly, should for a more authentic feel) but the sliding around motion that happens with a real tongue can’t really be replicated

OK, now here is where a tongue vibe is gonna have the edge – speed. Vibrators can provide a much more intense and powerful vibration because they are mechanical. Now, this is not to say that the more-than-averagely trained oral sex practitioner can’t offer a bit of exhilarating speed – they can! However, a good vibrating tongue teaser will run circles around your average real tongue. Sorry, the truth hurts.

While the tongue vibes may have speed in the bag, they do NOT have flexibility. Oh sure, there are some vibes that have a little bit of bendability – but can they swirl and straighten and go in circles and up and down, round and round? Some can to an extent but never in the way that a real tongue can. Oh sure, they can circle and wiggle and offer a bit of a circular ride but they will never be able to match the true flexibility of the real deal! Sorry Vibes, you lose this round!

So, when your lover gives your oral does the tongue also go in and out of you? You bet your clit it does! Oral sex is not only about the clitoris it is also about a little bit of fun and flirty insertion! Can a tongue vibe do that? SURE – but YOU have to do it! During real oral sex you just lay back and enjoy the fun while your lover teases you all over. With a vibe you sort of have to tease yourself. So this factor can sort of be a half / half. I guess it depends on if you want hands free pleasing.

OK, so the breakdown is a real tongue can do it all – provide instant lubricant, a variety of different, flexible movements as well as insertion if desired. The speed can be quite pleasing – but may not be as fast as can be provided by a vibrator.

So who wins? Can a vibrating tongue toy really replace a real tongue? Nope. No way. HOWEVER, there are definitely some toys which can offer a substitute in a pinch. Let’s face it ladies, we use toys as supplements, to aid in fantasies, and to provide us with stimulations that provide climax. Many of the tongue toys will do just that so they are worth a try – if only to have a different type of sensation.

Recommended Tongue Vibrator: Gyrating Tongue Vibe

This uniquely stimulating tongue vibrator rapidly licks and laps your clit to give you the explosive oral sex sensations you crave! It has two powerful speeds that will not disappoint. The tongue tip of the vibrator is soft and the entire toy is waterproof! Now you can enjoy mind-blowing tongue action during masturbation!

Recommended Oral Vibrator: Silicone Oral Vibe

This unique oral sex enhancing vibe will give you the best of both worlds! It is made of smooth silicone and fits around the corner of your mouth. It has 5 intense vibration functions for you to try and it is rechargeable and waterproof! This is perfect for spicing up oral sex and bringing your partner to orgasmic ecstasy!

Recommended Edible Lubricant: H2O Flavored Lube

Get wet with this edible lubricant! Choose from a variety of delicious flavors and turn your lover into a tasty treat! It is water-based and long-lasting, making it a great addition to any kind of sexual play. The flavorful, non-staining formula makes this a fantastic lubricant for foreplay and sex!

Tongue Or Toys? Let Us Know!


Date 7/7/2016
Lindsay M.
Tongue definitely. Like you said, there is just nothing better!
Date 7/7/2016
I like both. Oral sex is more intimate and unique but toys are powerful and can make me cum so quickly
Date 7/27/2016
Love both and water. Sometimes I lay back in the bathtub and scooch up so that my clit is getting hit by the water coming out of the faucet. The feeling is incredible which is a cross between licking and toys. I can feel my labia moving back and forth and my orgasm is intense! Also a good way to clean out the vagina.
Date 8/31/2017
My gynecologist says "No oral sex" if a woman is susceptible to UTI's, so tongue toys have to do it for us ! This can be a big problem as we age and the tissues are more susceptible. Nearly all tongue toys are fun but won't take you to orgasm, but they are great for self-foreplay.
Date 9/1/2018
Cammie K
psh u dont even need the man for oral sex with a toy like that! psha!
Date 12/29/2018
it's a no brainer...the real deal wins hands down
Date 1/17/2019
id rather use a toy. Just because I get to control the action!
Date 4/24/2019
I hope that my lady would say that the real thing is better than just some flimsy toy, us men have it to a science
Date 4/29/2019
I'd love the feel of a tongue vibrator ive just never tried one ya know

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