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10 Things I Think When He Turns Down Sex

Posted by Randa to Women's Issues

Oooh, rejected!  Nobody likes to be turned down, and least of all me.  It takes a lot of effort for me to present my luscious body to my lover and to hear him say, “nah!”  Is like a kick to the gut.  You’re turning me down?  You’re turning ME DOWN?  Oh no, I don’t think so!  And while I struggle to remove the knife in my heart that is his rejection, here are 10 things that go through my mind when he turns down sex.


What do you mean, “no?”  Who do you think you are?  You think you can just, say no?  Who gave you that right?  I don’t think so!  Pants off, mister! 

“But… It’s Me…”

Heartbreak.  I was turned down.  I put myself out there and I was crushed.  *Sigh*  I wish I had never been born!


Oh, and the rage has returned.  I AM YOUR GIRLFRIEND!  We have a contract!  You have sex with me, and I have sex with you!  I never turn you down!  I always 
hold up my end of the deal!  What’s the problem?  My word is my BOND!  You… you… uhg.

“I Thought You Loved Me.”

But I guess I was wrong if you turned down sex!  Obviously you’re not interested in pursuing this relationship any longer!  I’ll just pack my things!  So long!

“Don’t you like what you see?”

Come on, check me out!  Don’t you want this?  I don’t have a stripper body or a movie-star face, but I thought you liked my lumps and freckles.  What’s the deal?  Look at me!

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FINE, if you can’t be seduced, then LEAVE, get out of here!  Bye-bye!  I don’t care where you go, but you can’t stay here!  I am no longer interested!  GET AWAY FROM ME!
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“Maybe if I…”

What do you want?  A lap dance?  A plate of cookies?  All the money in my wallet?  My car?  My soul?  I’ll do that thing I said I’d never do.  NO, not that thing, the other thing.  Yes, that.  I’ll do that.  Please?  Pretty please?

“HA! I Don’t Need You!”

Think I don’t have friends who would love a shot at this?  HMM?  Think I can’t just pick up someone at a club?  I’ll do it.  You can’t stop me.  You don’t own me, and I don’t need you!  I can get what I want whenever I want!  I’ll take my business elsewhere!  Goodbye!

“I Didn’t Even WANT To Do It!”

I was just throwing you a bone, but if you’re too lame to accept it, FINE!  But I don’t see any more bones in your future.  Oooh no.  Not for you.

“Woe Is Me…”

I’m a good person.  I work hard.  I go to school.  I have a steady job.  I clean up after myself.  I pay my taxes.  I hold the door open for others.  I leave good tips.  I say please and thank you.  I don’t break the law.  I whisper in libraries.  I turn my cell phone off at the movies.  AND THIS IS WHAT I GET?  What a tragedy.

What Do You Think When Your Partner Turns Down Sex?
Let Us Know!


Date 2/17/2016
are you sick? lol
Date 2/17/2016
Katie 500
I could take him if I really wanted to! LOL that's what he would say to me!!!
Date 2/17/2016
Baby leaving me hanging every night drives me nuts
Date 2/17/2016
Mamma 3
thats fine i'll just use my vibrator ha
Date 2/17/2016
"I'll move out!"
Date 2/17/2016
Ooooh I think I can get him to change his mind ;)
Date 2/17/2016
His loss!
Date 2/19/2016
psh, I've got enough toys to keep me happy if he won't! plus, once I start playing alone he always gets interested!
Date 3/3/2016
c'mon now
Male here, my views are try and ingage in sexual activities with more variety. Example different times of day, different places, and or sexual varieties. Having the same sex at the same times is boring no matter if youve been fucking for a few month or a few years variety is key, besides i couldn't be bothered having sex when im heading to bed for sleep. My brain is ready for slumber at that moment, try coming on to him before sleep is thought of.
Date 3/3/2016
That's he's having self-sex with evil porn. Fine, he can go have sex with himself, I don't want to anymore.
Date 3/3/2016
never been turned down in 37 years.
Date 3/3/2016
Woman have been turning guys down forever, I guess you can't handle it when the tables are turned.
Date 4/9/2016
When ever she turns me down, I turn her down to drive her crazy. If I give in and give her what she wants, she's done for awhile.

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