Good, then we’re on the right track!
But Jen, you ask, now that I have my new fabulous toy, what do I do with it? You know that’s a pretty reasonable question. I remember a few years ago I was in an adult toy store and I was shopping for a bachelorette party present for a friend (honest—I was). It was hard not to look around and pick up everything I saw, but I specifically remember picking up one box and being completely baffled. For the life of me I couldn’t figure out how the toy would possibly be used. It looked, to me, to be a poached eggcup with rubber nubbies on the cup end. The entire contraption was attached to a battery pack. It didn’t bother me so much that I didn’t know what it was (come to find out it was a clit/tit pump) but that there were no directions, what so ever, that came with the toy!
I just can’t let you go into this sexual New World with little to no information about your vibrator, so I’ve compiled some tips and techniques for you and your partner.
Give Me a Hand—If you’re going to do it, why not do it with some flair? A soft-feel vibe or a traditional vibrator is wonderful for insertion and vaginal stimulation. But why not combine that with a clit stimulator (ivibes) to really enhance the experience? It takes a bit of coordination to accomplish, but I guarantee the results are worth the effort.
Tub Tickling—Sometimes the bathroom and a soak in the tub is the only way a woman can have any time to herself. There’s no phone, the kids can’t come in, roommates leave you alone—it’s time just for you. What a perfect time/place to do some playing then! The shower and/or tub have always been places where masturbation can easily be done. The stream of water from showerheads and tub faucets makes for great toys, but positioning one’s self for such play often proves difficult. This is where waterproof vibrators take over. With so many styles to choose from, you can’t lose. Personally, I think the Jelly Clitterific with suction cup will satisfy any woman’s bathtub adventure fantasies. (Remember—silicone-based lubes are best for water play, EXCEPT on silicone toys.)
Change of Scenery—Get out of the bedroom with your vibrator! Sure, the comforts of your bed should never be looked down upon, but the thrill of using your vibrator in different venues—mind popping! Vibrating panties or wireless, wearable clit stimulators (Micro Orchid) make it easy to leave the bedroom. I LOVE wearing my orchid around the house or even out in public. Sometimes I’ll keep it on a low, but constant hum and go about my business until the excitement builds so high that I need to sit down or duck into a bathroom stall and turn it up to high so that my orgasm can blow its lid. It’s discreet, thrilling, and hands free. What more could a girl ask for?
Boob Tube—I think you will be amazed to find out how incredible of an orgasm you will have if you choose to use a vibrator while watching an adult DVD. Maybe it’s just me, but for some reason watching movies while masturbating sends me right over the top. And if you’re not sure an adult movie is what you want than consider an Educational DVD that explains how to use your toys (Toys for Better Sex).
Variety is the spice to life—If you all remember I used to have one vibrator. A pink, small, non-powerful, vibrating—well—tube. And while it got the job done (barely) it wasn’t until I filled my toy box with a plethora of items that I discovered how much fun there was to be had. Like the perfect pair of black pants that go with everything, find the vibrator that is going to work every time. A good, sturdy, multi-speed vibrator that is going to be reliable. Once you’ve found that branch out and accessorize! Why not a G-spot vibrator? A clit stimulator? While you may not want, or need, to use it every time just having some variety of hand will come in handy. We dress according to our moods, so why shouldn’t we play according to our moods also?
Busy Business Trip—Mini massagers were made for travel. End of story. I do want to give a piece of advice though. If you are traveling via an airline I would suggest packing your toy(s) in your checked luggage (make sure to remove the batteries first) rather than in your carry-on baggage. Scanners pick up every detail in your luggage and unless you’re ready to deal with the exposure of your vibrator by an airport employee to the line of people behind you than you’d be better off packing it in your checked bags. Have fun and remember…everyone watches the adult channel in his or her hotel room, it’s just that no one ever admits it!
While playing by one’s self is a wonderful experience, sharing the wealth can be just as much fun. Whether your partner is male or female including vibrating toys in your romp can only heighten your sexual encounters with him or her.
You May Need a Spatula—Intercourse is amazing. Use a clit stimulator during intercourse and your partner will be peeling you off of the ceiling after your orgasm. The combination of a slow, rhythmic penetration along with a high-speed vibration of the clitoral area is going to introduce your body to body shaking orgasms!
The Great Exploration—If you don’t want to use toys during the actual act of intercourse then I would suggest a rousing “play date” during foreplay. You and/or your partner may want to experiment with exploring your bodies with a vibrator. You will find certain areas to be more receptive to the vibrations (breasts, thighs, and scrotum). Another foreplay adventure is to lie on top of a vibrator (Venus Butterfly) while your partner explores your body with another vibrator, or better yet, his or her tongue!
Sit and Spin—Sure it may look a bit odd, but don’t let that intimidate you. Dual-purpose vibrators (Diving Dolphin) should be the guest of honor at any play date. The toys fit over the penis and rest upon the base. Not only do these toys vibrate for your pleasure, but also for the man’s pleasure. There are a wide variety of styles that suit almost every need and desire.
A remote control you’ll never lose—How about orgasming without your partner (or even yourself for that matter) ever even touching you? How about while out in public? This may be one of my favorite tips because it really can be creative and fun. Wireless, vibrating panties (for men and women) come with a wireless remote. Are you seeing the big picture yet? If not, I’ll stop beating around the bush. Why not sport a pair of wireless, vibrating panties, give the remote to your partner and head out to do some grocery shopping? I promise you’ll never look at a banana in the same way!
Bonding with your Toy—Sometimes not knowing what is coming next can be as enticing as the event itself. You may want to try restraining your partner with some fuzzy handcuffs and then blindfolding them with an eye mask. Once you’ve done that use an assortment of vibrators on his or her body. Maybe a mini-massager on their erogenous area while performing oral sex on them? Or you could use a clit stimulator on yourself while using a vibrator on him. Whatever you decide upon you will keep both parties happy!
So I hope these tips and techniques will keep you, along with your partner, in an orgasmic tizzy! Best of luck!
Impulse Jack Rabbit - This is the Jack Rabbit Vibrator with all the bells and whistles. You will have different vibrating options to enhance your orgasms.
Hustler Oral Pleaser - This combines suction with vibration. It takes a little handy work to get it set just right, but when you do, you will be one very satisfied lady.