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10 Weird Sex Tips That Actually Work

Posted by Randa to General / Misc Info
10 Weird Sex Tips That Actually Work

Sex tips. Some are great. Some are terrible. Some are just plain dangerous! There are a lot of different ways you and your lover can improve your sex life. There are many sex tips that may not sound like they would work for you and your partner, but you have to give them a try to find out! Here are 10 offbeat sex tips that you should actually try!

Romantic Couple Kissing
Kissing your partner’s whole body isn’t only a simple trick to extend foreplay, but it is impressively sexy! There are a lot of parts on the body that don’t get a lot of attention and are rarely considered erogenous, which actually makes them extra sensitive to sexual stimulation. Lightly kiss the inside of the wrists, the shoulder blades, around the neck, under the breasts, the torso – everywhere! Add a little lick to enhance the effect. If you are thorough, your partner will be tingling with ecstasy before you reach the main event!

2. Hot And Cold
Sexy Oral Sex Foreplay
This is a fairly common sex tip that not many people try, but it really does make a difference! Adding a little heat (with a warming edible lube) or a little cold (with a cooling lube or ice cube) during oral sex is a simple yet highly effective way to add new and exciting thrills to standard sexual play. How often do you have a warm mouth dancing a cool ice cube around your cock? Never. It’s different and ultra stimulating. Ladies, he can do the same things to you during oral or you can use a glass toy! Glass toys are perfect for temperature play. Just run it under cool or warm water for a few minutes and the sensations will feel like new.

3. Wear Socks
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Ridiculous? Yes. Especially if you have an assortment of crazy colors and designs like I do. But don’t let that stop you! Cold feet are an orgasm inhibitor, so keep those piggies toasty if you want to climax! During sex, blood rushes to your genitals, leaving your outer extremities (like your toes) out in the cold. This tip is especially helpful for women, as ladies typically have more trouble achieving orgasm. If you feel silly in socks, don’t. I have a pair with Orlando Bloom’s face from Pirates Of The Caribbean. It doesn't get goofier than that.

4. Leave The Lights On
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Some of you are undoubtedly horrified to read this. I know. I’m just as insecure as the next person, so this wasn’t an easy one for me. But leaving the lights on can be incredibly sexy for the both of you! You have to ignore all of your anxieties about your body and let your partner enjoy seeing you in the light. This is likely going to be tougher for more woman than men, but I know there are plenty of guys out there who are shy about their bodies. Acknowledge the fact that your partner isn’t judging you – he’s turned on by you! He sees your hot, naked body, not that stretch mark. Not that flab. Not that mole. Visual stimulation is extremely arousing, so give your lover a chance to see you in the sexiest and naughtiest of ways!

5. Don’t Orgasm
Female Orgasm
I don’t mean don’t orgasm EVER, but maybe forgo it one night or even more if you can stand it. This isn’t to make you feel deprived; it is to make you long for more sex! It keeps the sexual tension high. Rather than ending the night in orgasm, it basically continues into the next day. Plus, rather than focus on climax like it is the ultimate and only goal of sex, you focus on simply pleasing your lover in different ways. You can’t use that trick you always use to get your partner to cum, because you don’t want to make them cum! This is a great way to switch things up, to find new hotspots, to get creative, and to increase arousal.

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6. Do Your Kegels (Men, Too!)
Kegel Exercises
Kegel exercises are not just for women, and they have amazing benefits that can drastically improve your sex life. For women, Kegel exercises tighten the vaginal walls, strengthen the pelvic floor, and help make orgasm easier to achieve. For men, they can strengthen erections. For both men and women, Kegel exercises can help you experience more intense, longer-lasting orgasms. So, get clenching!

7. Watch Each Other Masturbate
Erotic Couple Foreplay
If you’ve never done this before, it might sound a little strange, but it can help you visually learn what your partner likes. Seeing exactly how your lover likes to be touched means you’ll know exactly how to pleasure her later. She knows best of all what feels good, so see how she does it! It is the same for women. You can learn just how your man likes to be handled. Plus, it’s so gosh-darn sexy to watch and a great way to spice up foreplay.

8. Tease To Please
Teasing Couple Sex
Sexual teasing has a bad reputation of being more than a nuisance than anything else, but it deserves a little more credit than that. Maybe in high school it was just plain miserable, but you needn’t be pained by that rejection any longer! Teasing is a very tantalizing form of foreplay. If keeps your lover hot and on her toes all day long. When you finally give her what she wants, it will be more satisfying and even more pleasurable. Even a little teasing during sex (by not fully penetrating her right away or extending the foreplay session) can be incredibly arousing.

9. Magic Mirror On The Wall
Couple Watches XXX Sex
Who is the sexiest of them all?It’s you and your partner of course! A well-placed mirror can make you and your lover the audience to your lovemaking. This gives the both of you the arousing benefits of visual stimulation in real time. It’s easy to do and a great way to boost libido almost instantly. It is also a great alternative to making your own personal pornography if you are afraid to have that sort of thing on tape or think you will be too embarrassed to really enjoy making it. You will leave no trace of your dirty deeds, but you still get to enjoy watching!

10. Hug And Kiss More
Romantic Couple Kissing
The basics of courtship are often overlooked the longer you and your partner are together, but hugging and kissing are fundamental! Longer hugs can improve feelings of trust and closeness while kissing can improve intimacy and inspire romance. Both inside and outside of the bedroom should you try to do these things more often. An extended make-out session is perfect for increasing arousal and improving your sex life because it is easy and nice to do! So get back to the basics – grab your lover and pucker up! Oh, and don’t forget to use tongue!

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Date 3/24/2016
Ginger F. K.
Me and my husband have recorded ourselves having sex a couple of times and it is a little embarassing lol but as long as you have a good sense of humor, it is really hot!
Date 3/24/2016
love watching my wife use toys
Date 3/24/2016
Fay <3
Tempurature play with glass toys and edible lubes are great! We've only tried a few different flavors but they have been good and definitely a lot of fun :)
Date 3/24/2016
we go out on a date every week so we arent distracted by the kids and focus on one another
Date 3/26/2016
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Date 10/19/2016
B me
I have a friend that I want to eat me. He is the best kisser I have ever had . I am married but would love to suck his cock.
Date 7/27/2017
James Buckmaster
I have been approached a number of times for sexual encounters, mostly by text messages. They then ask me to be cleared as a safe date by directing me to some online dating service asking me to use a credit card to prove my age. It seems to me, (I'm in my sixties), that there are better ways to prove ones age, and, although they say that there are no charges, there always seems to be charges. Are these gals employees or representatives of these companies? Do they ever meet the people they direct to these sites?
Date 8/31/2017
Cooler the water from my shower massage turns me on - seems to intensify the sensation. I race against the clock, telling myself I've gotta cum now or the water will get really COLD ! As it gets cooler and cooler, as the water tank runs low, the pressure to cum excites me more and more.
Date 10/25/2017
While this isn't my favorite my husband likes to leave the lights on because it turns him on to see all of me. I had a hard time with this at first because I had low self-confidence but I'm getting used to it! I kind of want to get a big mirror so I can watch
Date 10/28/2017
Sam Carmen
I love mutual masturbation! Watching my partner get off to me touching myself is hot
Date 1/29/2018
I got a cooling lube after using a vibrator that was pretty cold and it felt surprisingly good! Cooling lube just made it better. I love using it on my clit and feeling it tingle as my partner blows on it.
Date 2/1/2018
i love the frustration of teasing! The longer I have to wait on the edge, the better! Especially if I beg my partner for more and he holds off.
Date 2/3/2018
Sandra's man
Try surprising her with a lengthy full body massage including an oil with lavender aroma, then ease into foreplay & oral stimulation on her erroneous zones. When she climaxes from clitoral stimulation it will be mega-intense to say the least.
Date 2/4/2018
My wife and I love mutual masturbation. We have a very large collection of sex toys (many that we've acquired from Too Timid). We love being affectionate both in and out of the bedroom, and even after nine years together, our relationship still feels new!!
Date 2/28/2018
Aim Scharper
Okay I guess I have a good one as far as my man says. I'm 5'6" and I weigh 145lbs , firm breasts and a nice ass.
Date 5/5/2018
Here is one thing that can create a different atmosphere with strong sexual overtones, that is quite simple. Ladies surrender your panties before going out. If there are other couples, she that all the women do the same. This should not appear to be leading to anything. Just the knowledge that that there is vulnerability can have an interesting effect on casual thoughts. It adds an edge to the evening, just the thought, brings attention to whatever your mind wants to create. When the mind is thinking, it may not be at a consious level but thinking never the less. Simple things can take on different interpertations, many of which can be carnal in nature. Thinking and play can led to unexpected events. The mind and thought are very powerful factors in the feelings we have and act on. We drink and take drugs to change our perception of things or to subdue our inhibitions. This simple act can accomplish a lot, with no side effects. This could be extended to a party, where panties where prohibited. Just plant the seed, and let your naughty mind guide your thoughts and actions. At a party someone takes a chance, another picks up on it and the whole room shifts, or couples go home with certain thoughts. Just like when you were young, had a hot date with heavy petting and bodily contact, and could not wait to get home and masterbate. Just give it a chance, it's cheap and easy. I have had dates where I asked for her panties, and just went on with the date, and things just seemed to happen.
Date 5/6/2018
I agree with Jim, simple mutual masturbation. can be fun. leave the lights on. Look at each other, cheer the other on when it looks as though they are going to cum. Are you throbbing? I feels so good. Just let it go, cum, cum, cum. Tell me how it feels, shoot, shoot, shoot. Allow for it to become a run away situation. this can be enhanced by discussions about what words best describe their feelings. As a teenager I had a date tell me that she felt that she was going to shoot. This was her first real sexual experience, and she was expressing what she experienced. Words that the person identifies with are most effective. I know for me shoot, best describes what is happening. If I am in her, shoot and more, fill me up, I want it all, I am going to hold you in me until I get all your cum. I want it all, shoot, shoot, shoot, don't hold anything back. I want it all, fill me up! Language can be very effective in enhancing the experience. I know many of the pendants say talk dirty, I don't like dirty. Vagina is much more enticing to me than pusy. Clitoris rather than clit. It's all personal, but it can make a big difference. I had a friend and when we were nor seeing others would get together and play. One thing she would do was she had a special anointment. She would have me strip down, peel back my foreskin and apply the wonderful potion. Then she would ask in a low almost hypnotic voice how it felt. With a slow constant motion she would massage the head, constantly asking that I be specific about what was happening, my pienus is throbbing, the whole shaft is throbbing, she would not change the speed or intensity of her strokes. but she would insist in that soft hypnotic voice that I keep telling her specifically what was happening. That I keep repeating, my pienus is throbbing, I like my throbbing pienus throbbing, it feel so good. She would insist that I keep talking and tell her exactly what was happening, eventually I would emit my juices into her hand. It was interesting that this was without excitement, just pure pleasure, and I would just yield the fluid to her. She would examine it, and if it was a large amount, chide me for allowing it to build up so much, I was neglecting my health, I needed it to not allow it to build up like that, I was not practicing good self relief. She would then go to the bathroom returning with a warm washcloth, and clean the and dry the whole area. Other nights I would minister got her, giving her screaming orgasims. I later learned from experience with her how to administer true reliable G spot orgasms. She truly knew how to come, her screaming frightened me for fear that the neighbors would call the police. I have since taken this knowledge to other female friends with similar results. what I have learned from this is the number of women that go though life not ever knowing what was possible.

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