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7 Ways To Avoid Jealousy In The Swinger's Lifestyle

Posted by Mikayla to Single & Dating
People assume, falsely, that those couples who are in a swinging lifestyle situation do not experience jealousy. After all, they are sharing, willingly, their partner with another person, as well as partaking in sex with a different partner themselves. The truth is, while swingers may be less prone to jealousy, it can, and does, still rear its ugly head from time to time. We all can be affected by seeing someone whom we care for engaging in exciting sex with a new partner, even if it is consensual. So, how are some ways to avoid jealousy while in the swingers lifestyle?

What is "Swinging?"

Posted by Mikayla to Single & Dating
Have you heard of swinging or swingers? Do you truly understand what it is, or isn't? Do you assume that this term refers to people who are having orgies with a bunch of people? Do you assume it means loaning your wife / husband to another person? There are many assumptions about what swinging in, and most of them are at least partly wrong. While there is more than one understanding of what is involved in swinging, the gist of it remains mostly the same.

How Erotica Can Improve Your Sex Life

Posted by Mikayla to Masturbation
As a woman who has enjoyed reading erotica since probably her early 20s, and who also enjoys writing erotica, I can attest to just how exciting it can be to curl up with a hot erotica book or story and just allow the fantasy to fill your mind. In short, reading erotica can help your sex life, here's why.

All You Need To Know About Cuckholding

Posted by Mikayla to Men's Issues
Have you heard of cuckholding? Recently, cuckholding has been taking the porno world by storm, with a recent influx of videos hitting online porn sites. Cuckholding is when a man watches his wife / girlfriend having sex with another man. If you are wondering why in the world anyone would want to do this, let me tell you, it is a very common fantasy turned reality.

5 Sex Games To Play At A Swingers Party

Posted by Mikayla to Single & Dating
Believe it or not, the swinging mentality is making a huge comeback in our dating society nowadays.  Swingers are traditionally couples who sleep with other people, usually at the same time their partner is doing it. So, if you are interested in hosting a swingers party, or have been invited to one, what are some games you could expect to play?  Here are just 5 of the most popular.

10 Must-Try Bondage Scenarios For Beginners

Posted by Mikayla to Bondage
Bondage is a great way to add a little spice into your sex life.  Oftentimes, though, people are not quite sure how to begin.  If you have ever researched bondage or watched bondage films or adult films you know that it can get pretty extreme, and for some people seem very scary!  I am here to tell you that there is bondage that any couple can enjoy and many different bondage scenarios that are great to try your hand at this sexy and erotic practice.  So, if you are a newbie and want to give bondage a go, read on.

Why Your Guy Wants YOU To Stimulate His Prostate!

Posted by TooTimid Staff to Anal Sex
Let’s begin this article by asking this question, “Do you know what / where a prostate is?” First of all, only men have a prostate gland. It is a tiny, walnut shaped gland located between the bladder and the penis. The urethra, which is how urine exits the body, runs through the prostate and into the penis. The prostate can be reached (and stimulated) by placing a finger (or a prostate stimulating toy) into the rectum approximately knuckle deep. It is located on the bottom floor of the rectum. During sexual arousal, the prostate swells (sort of like the female G-Spot) and stimulating it can be very intensely pleasurable. Read on to learn more...

12 Things He Doesn't Want During a Blowjob

Posted by TooTimid Staff to Spice It Up!

We often write articles or helpful hints on what TO do during a blowjob, but wouldn’t you like to know what men DON’T want during their BJ? I consulted with my gaggle of guy buds and found out the answers. Some won’t come as a surprise, but others just may shock you.

How to Give a Sensual Massage

Posted by TooTimid Staff to How-To Sex Tips Guides
Sensual massages are a 2 in 1: a massage that feels great and a lead in to sex. Technically, any massage can lead to sexual activity, but a sensual massage is meant to seduce as well. Here are some things to try.

5 Naughty Couch Sex Positions

Posted by Mikayla to How-To Sex Tips Guides
The couch has long been a place of romance, as many couples may have their first sexual encounters on the couch. Don't think you have to go to the bedroom the next time your movie night gets a little hot! No, just get busy right then and there on the trusty living room couch!

How to Play with Her Clit

Posted by Mikayla to Men's Issues

The clit - the short form of the word "clitoris" is one of, if not THE, most sensitive erogenous zone on a woman. Read on to find some new ways to stimulate her clit and give them a try, the results may just be explosive!

How to Use a Cock Ring

Posted by Mikayla to Men's Issues

Over the last 6 years that I have been at TooTimid, I have been asked repeatedly about cock rings. Are they safe? YES. Do they work? YES. Will they help me maintain an erection? YES. Do they have ones that will be pleasurable for my partner? YES. How do you use one? Well, le's explore the world of cock and vibrating rings and see what we can learn? Class is now in session.

5 Fantastic Foreplay Ideas!

Posted by TooTimid Staff to General / Misc Info

Foreplay is about getting him hard, getting her wet, and getting both of you drooling in anticipation with a variety of stimulating sensations. With new foreplay techniques, you’ll be able to extend your pleasure past “good sex” into the realm of “the best sex I’ve ever had!” Here is a collection of 5 Fantastic Foreplay Ideas!

5 Erotic Massage Techniques For His Cock

Posted by TooTimid Staff to General / Misc Info
Sexy Woman On Top Of Man
Hand jobs or blowjobs are always on the menu. However, what about erotic cock massage? You read that right – MASSAGE. No, this is not code for a slow hand job, not really anyway. Erotic massage is just as the name implies, the erotic massaging of his man parts, err, his main man part. Confused? OK, read on and find out just how to massage him into intimate submission.

All About Bondage

Posted by TooTimid Staff to Bondage

Bondage is a fantastic way to spice up your love life! IF you are interested in learning more about all things bondage take a look here at our ultimate guide to bondage.

Sex Positions - The Ultimate Guide

Posted by TooTimid Staff to General / Misc Info

Changing sexual positions is such an important way to explore different sensations and to connect intimately as a couple. Click here to read about everything sex positions!

5 Things She Actually Wants on Valentine's Day

Posted by TooTimid Staff to General / Misc Info

Angela & Bethany tell you the 5 things she actually wants for Valentine's Day! Happy Valentine's Day from all of us at!

How To Admit A Sexual Fantasy To Your Partner

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info
Sexy Woman With Whip
Sometimes we may have a fantasy that borders on unusual and we are afraid to share it with our partner because they may judge us, find us odd, break-up with us, or even become afraid of us!  Now you are probably wondering what types of fantasies could evoke such a powerful reaction, right?  Read on to find out more!

5 Ways To Enhance Masturbation

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info
Beautiful Woman Masturbating
Masturbation is such a pleasurable experience that nearly 90% of adults do on a fairly regular basis (yes, even the married ones!) Masturbation is a great way to experiment with pleasure and to find things that will make your body sing! So, what could possibly make masturbation BETTER? Wanna know? Read on!

5 Moments You Should Drop What You Are Doing To Have Sex

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info
Sexy Couple Kissing
Spontaneous sex is absolutely AMAZING because it is when you are so consumed and hot for the other person that you JUST HAVE TO DO IT NOW! Some people struggle with the idea of just stopping whatever they are doing to get it on, but I am telling you, there are some times when you just have to! Here are just 5 of them.

Best Toys For INCREDIBLE Foreplay

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info
Intimate Foreplay Couple
For a couple, foreplay gets you both hot and bothered and ready to go. Kissing, fondling, fingering, oral sex – all these are common forms of foreplay. However, how many people think of using toys to help with foreplay? Oh yeah, toys make excellent additions to foreplay. Here are just a few top choices to integrate into your foreplay time.

What Every Couple Can Do To Have Better Sex

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info
Intimate Couple In Bed
Sex is an ever-changing, constantly adapting, super fantastic part of a healthy relationship. So, if you are having good sex (and I do hope you are!) and you want to know how to have BETTER sex, then read on and hopefully this can inspire you a bit.

Erotic Ways To Use A Suction Cup Dildo With A Partner

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info
Vibrating Dildo
Suction cup dildos can add a whole new level to couple play.  Many men do not know the fun and excitement that this particular toy can bring to their sex lives and many women do not ever think of bringing their traditionally solo time toy into the bedroom with their partner.  So, let me tell you some of the erotic ways you can use a suction cup dildo with your partner.

5 Erotic Massage Techniques For Her Pussy

Posted by Mikayla to Women's Issues
Sexy Woman Pleasured
Erotic massage is just as the name implies - a massage that is of the erotic - personal and sensual - nature.  Is this massage supposed to elicit orgasm?  Yes, sure, but even if it doesn't it is designed to feel amazing.  Is this massage supposed to be relaxing?  Well, probably not since it is on her private parts.  If you are curious about erotic massage, read on for some techniques to get started.

7 Places In Your Home You NEED To Have Sex In

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info
Intimate Couple Kissing
If you think that sex is only for the bedroom then you are so, so missing out on some sexy and fun opportunities! There are so many places in (and outside) of your home where you can have some unique sexual encounters. So, the next time you are thinking of sexy time why not take it OUT of the bedroom and try something new in one of these other places in your home!
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