My journey of sexual exploration has been all about getting to know my body better, and trying new things, even when they make me anxious. In the Fifty Shades of Grey series by E.L. James, the author introduced me to unexpected sex toys, like weighted Ben Wa balls. I began wondering what they would feel like inside of me, and with the Silicone Kegel Exerciser Set, I was able to find out for myself. Before inserting the toy inside of me, I washed it thoroughly with antibacterial soap, something the manufacturer, Cloud 9, recommends you do both before as well as after play.
This set comes with four balls, two of which are a lighter weight. I thought this was a nice touch, not only for vaginal toning purposes, but for beginners like me who want to start out slow! After cleaning the toy, which I found incredibly easy due to the smooth, silicone material, I placed myself in a comfortable position. I would recommend either crouching down in a squat, or propping yourself up on a bed for the initial insertion. This way, your body is open and accepting of the toy. It is also much easier to slide in if your vagina is lubricated properly, either naturally or otherwise. You might feel a slight pressure when pushing the Silicone Kegel Exercise Set inside, but this is completely normal! The pressure comes from the weight of the balls as well as the round shape. If your body does not seem accepting of the toy, simply re-position yourself and relax your muscles. Breathing exercises help! What I found most surprising about the balls was, once inside and moving around, I didn’t feel a noticeable change. In fact, my body molded quite effortlessly with the set. After a matter of minutes, the entire affair felt normal. There was no pain, and the longer I kept them in, the less anxiety I had.
Once done with my “exercises,” all I had to do was simply pull the accompanying handle of the Silicone Kegel Exercise Set. I made sure to do this slowly, so as not to shock my body, allowing one weighted ball to fall out at a time. I look forward to using this in the future, incorporating them on a weekly basis, so I can enjoy to the fullest the pleasure these weighted balls promise!