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How To Use Sex Toys If You Are A Virgin

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info
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It may seem impossible that a virgin would have any interest in a sex toy, when realistically, sex toys are absolutely fantastic for virgins.  I know, I know…why would a virgin NEED a sex toy?  If she (or he) has never had sex before, why do they need supplemental toys?  You do realize that most people masturbate BEFORE they ever have sex, right?  So, if you are now curious – virgin or not – you must keep on reading!


if you are a virgin, why do you need a sex toy?  Why not just wait until you have sex?  Uh, and why on earth would anyone want to wait to give themselves REALLY GOOD self-pleasure until they have a relationship?  Listen, sex toys are fantastic for any person, virgin or not.  They are safe, discreet, provide pleasure, and will help you to maintain your virginity.  With all that, isn’t the question – why not?

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Penetration toys are great, but they aren't always the top choice for beginning virgins. Nervous about full penetration? Just keep them on the outside of your body!  You can use VibratorsFirst Time Vibrator In BedBullets and even Massage Wands all successfully for clitoral stimulation!

Why?  And you may be asking yourself WHY you would need to have a sex toy to masturbate with if you are a virgin.  Why not just use your fingers like you have been.  Um, hello, because it feels AMAZING.  Not to mention the chances of you having a faster and more powerful orgasm increase with vibrator play.


Vibrators are not the only items in the sex toy catalog.  There are Pussy Pumps, Nipple Clamps, Clitoral Gels, and Oral Sex Replicating Toys!  If you are going to explore the land of sexual pleasure, why not try a whole host of sex toys that are not used internally – or are used on different parts of your body, like your nipples!

Why?  Do you really think that you have to have a partner to try nipple clamps?  Or that trying a pussy pump is something a “virgin” wouldn’t do?  Guess again!  Personal pleasure is just that – PERSONAL – and what you do in the privacy of your bedroom is your business!  So explore and more!

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If you are a virgin guy, chances are your hand is getting all the action! But don't worry - there are plenty of options for you, too.  Masturbation sleeves are miracles and make masturbation so much better!  Realistic vaginas add an extra visual step to the masturbation sleeve.  Penis pumps, cock rings, even prostate massagers are all really great items for you to use solo.  So, trade in the hand and lotion for a real masturbation sleeve!

Why?  If your hand works just fine, why buy masturbation sleeve?  Uh, try one and you will NEVER ask that question again.  Plus, cock rings and penis pumps are fun new experiences and different sensations that you have probably not experienced.

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Date 9/7/2017
In my 20s I had a small vibrator before I lost my virginity. Now I use much stronger toys but I loved it at the time. I use a lot of toys with my hubby but usually use things like the magic wand and dildos alone.
Date 9/7/2017
interesting. i did not think to use sex toys before i started having sex.
Date 3/14/2018
riley smith
It's interesting that you mentioned toys being discrete. I have been thinking about using a toy for the first time soon. It would be smart to try one that is smaller so I can keep it hidden wherever I want.
Date 5/13/2018
Stephanie Shockley
I have an awesome vibrator but I am a virgin and I can never get it to go into me. I've tried everything. I even tried the lub, or whatever you call that, that's supposed to get you slippery but it still won't go into me. Anything else I can try? Yes, I tried stretching myself out down there as well.

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