We all want to have successful and happy relationships, right? When it comes to sex we especially want to keep our man (or woman) happy in the bedroom. Sometimes we find that harder to do when things get a little, shall we say – routine – in the bedroom. So how do we spice things up for him to keep him super interested in hitting the sheets with you? Well, if you are finding your bedroom time to be a bit basic (or if you just want some new ideas) take a look at these sexy suggestions.
BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY SESSION
Have you seen the ads for boudoir photography? Where a photographer takes sexy and erotic photos of you to present to your lover. Well, while doing this is a great idea in and of itself, what is even MORE sexy is to have your lover play photographer! Go and get your hair and make-up done special, buy new lingerie, panties and bras. Get waxed and go tanning (if you do those things). Then, set up your bedroom with some candles and such. Tell your lover you have a special night planned for him. Stride into the bedroom looking your sexy best and tell him you want him to pose you and take pictures. You can and should ACTUALLY take pictures too! Whether they be on your phone or digital camera. Have fun with it! Arouse each other. Then, when you are done you can “thank” your photographer properly! Just remember to put the pictures in a private folder so no one else sees them!
Does your man go to the strip clubs with his buddies? Has he never been to one? They can be quite fun and arousing. Why not suggest you go together! This is a very common occurrence and they are quite used to couples coming in together. No matter how far you want to take it – just watching or perhaps getting a lap dance for your lover (or for you!) – you can have fun watching the erotically charged dancers doing their thing. Not too keen on another woman amping up your man? Then do a private strip tease at home! There are ‘how to’ videos online everywhere so you can learn some sexy moves of your own. In either scenario the night will surely end with both of you dancing between the sheets!
See 5 Sexy Fantasies HE Has!
Does your dude have a “thing” for naughty nurses? What about cheerleaders? If you know your guys secret crush then you can have a lot of fun with role playing! Go to a costume shop and get that outfit (sexy cheerleader, professor, naughty nurse) and set up a night of fun and erotic role playing! Don’t tell your man beforehand and allow his surprise to be part of the fun! He will be so anxious to see where this will take you, and I bet it will take you both to bed!
I have often suggested to couples who are having a hard time connecting in bed that they need to discuss their sexual fantasies and desires. Sometimes, talking about them seems to be a bit hard. There is embarrassment or fear of being judged. So, I tell them to use the fantasy box! The fantasy box is where you and your partner both write down 2-4 fantasies that you have. They should be manageable fantasies (not ones that require a trip to Italy or 6 of her closest friends). You each write them down and take turns picking them out of the box. There is to be NO judgment on the fantasy and you should make every effort to actually act them out! So, if your man writes down that he would like to have his toes sucked – you would try that for him. It can be a great way to explore new things and learn about your partner!
Remember when you were newly together and sexting was par for the course? Have you forgotten the fun and excitement in giving and receiving those naughty notes? Well, why not send him some special super sexting messages throughout the day and then reward his “patience” at the end of the night? Start out slowly with an almost innocent text: “I miss your lips” and then as it goes on get more graphic: “I miss your hands on me and IN me...” and if you are daring enough, pictures can be fun as can videos! He will be drooling to get to you by the end of the day!
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