3 Best Sex Positions To Give Her An Orgasm
- Missionary Man
- Ride The O
- Going D for the O
1. Missionary Man
If you think that missionary (man on top) is a ho-hum or vanilla position, it may be time to change your mind! While it is considered the most practiced position, there is a reason:
- Helps improve intimacy
- Allows you to achieve deep penetrative stimulations
- Provides internal and external sensations for intense orgasms
How it works:
The missionary position places the man’s pubic bone in a fantastic position for rubbing against her clitoris. The partner on the bottom can adjust their hips to thrust up into him to allow more friction.
The closeness of this position also allows for kissing and holding – which improves intimate connection with your partner during intercourse. The partner on the bottom can wrap their legs around the person on top, or, make them lax and limp so that her clitoris is more exposed.
Don’t brush missionary aside, take time to find the exact missionary position that feels best to you!
2. Ride To The O
When a woman takes control of her own pleasure she is more likely to have an orgasm. For many women, this means the reverse cowgirl position!
This position allows for:
- Deep vaginal penetration
- Shallow play
- Double penetration using a finger or a toy
- Simultaneous clitoral and vaginal stimulation
How it works:
In this position she can take her partner as deeply or as shallow as she would like. She also can adjust her strides to a pace that suits her. She can rub her clitoris against him while she is in charge, enhancing her arousal and increasing her chance of having an orgasm.
For many women the reverse cowgirl position creates the optimal environment for orgasm!
3. Going D For The O
Who doesn’t love doggy style? Although this position might not be known for its benefits to female pleasure, doggy style is optimal for those who love deep strokes and G-spot rubs.
Why we love doggy:
- Achieve deep G-Spot or A-Spot orgasms
- Can place a toy over your clitoris to increase arousal for more intense orgasms
- Variety in positioning to achieve multiple stimulations
How it works:
With doggy style, penetration is deep – which is pleasing for both partners. The curve of the penis can stroke a woman’s G-Spot, so if she is a lucky girl and can orgasm from internal stimulation alone – this position is a must do!
If she wants to add in some clitoral stimulation while having sex all she has to do is reach between her legs and go to it, apply a sex toy, or her partner can reach around to press & tease it for her.
This position also offers options:
- Bending your head toward the bed changes the depth
- Spreading legs offers clitoral stimulation
- Closing legs together makes it tighter
Experiment and find out what works best for you!
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My wife and I have been married for 19 years with our share of ups and downs in the bedroom. But here the past couple of years sex has been almost non existent. And when we do get intimate it seems like it’s more of a choir to her than something enjoyable. I’ve tried to spice up the loving by introducing toys for her plaesure,to no avail. Now I’m just lost as to what to do NOW,or just quit trying all together? I’m 55yrs old and she is 43,is this the end?!?!?
Your wife is a direct carbon copy of mine! I’m 71 and have been with her for 22 years! She suffers from too much catholic faith (which is a sex killer!)! Easily the worst decision I’ve ever made was marrying her! Get out while you still can! Don’t ever marry a woman who isn’t on the same page sexually, you have no one to blame but yourself!!
CAN ALL WOMEN SQUIRT I LOVE WATCHING IT IN PORN I WANT TO LEARN HOW AND I WANT AN ANALGASM TOO.ANY TIPS MY PARTNER & I ARE INTO KINKY SEX I USE A STRAP ON & LOVE RIMMING HIM TOO.I AM WANTING TO HAVE A SEXY TRANNY JOIN US .Bad Idea?
I was one of those who said never, ever will you get in my ass. He was persistent and I finally decided to give it a go. I was sure it would be horrible. It was incredible. I love it. Guys, make sure you go easy, very easy. Something I learned that doesn’t seem to make the “how to” list is as he’s slowly entering, push out. Made a world of difference for me. Don’t forget the lube…ever.
Kevin, my ex-wife was not into Anal Sex and we were married for 10 years. My current wife of 15 years is not into Anal sex either! I discussed with my ex and my current wife things they would not do in bed before we got married, and everything was OK except Anal Sex, so I hate to say this you probably will never change her mind! When I was between wives I dated a woman and she wanted was Anal Sex, and even I had my limitations on what she wanted me to do when it came to Anal play, we didn’t stay together very long!
Since she is not knowledgeable about sex, you have to teach her. My wife and I have a book and it has probably been updated since it came out 365 days of sex, of course the pages involving Anal have been crossed out!
You want to spice up your sex life, sex toys, sex furniture, and maybe bondage restraints! One way to introduce her into Anal, is to get videos on master and slave bondage involving Anal, both male and female receiving Anal while being tied up and she still finds it unappealing, don’t push it! Most women find Anal to be disgusting because of Ass to Mouth Oral Sex, which why I stopped dating the woman who loved Anal. I would not push my tongue inside her butt hole, and though she loved Ass to Mouth Oral, I would not kiss her until she rinsed her mouth! I don’t mind tasting mouthwash, but I did not want to taste Crap, unless you have given yourself a thorough enema. Angela has stated in some of her posts on Anal Sex Crap happens!
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