While sex is enjoyable in and of itself, everyone knows that the highlight of sex is the orgasm! Men love to make their woman cum – and women, of course, love to oblige! However, it is not always easy for a woman to climax and certain positions are better than others to achieve this goal. While not all women are the same – and some positions may be easier for some women than others – here are 3 positions that often are successful for giving her an orgasm!
1. MISSIONARY MAN
If you think that missionary (man on top) is a ho-hum or vanilla position think again! While it is considered the most practiced position there is a reason: it can get your woman off! The missionary position places the man’s pubic bone in a fantastic position for rubbing against her clitoris. Furthermore, she can adjust her hips to thrust up into him to allow more friction. The closeness of this position also allows for kissing and holding – which is intimate – and often helps the woman connect with her partner. The woman can wrap her legs around her man, or, make them lax and limp so that her clitoris is more exposed. The variations are limitless! So, don’t shrug off the missionary position, think of it as the cums-a-lot position!
2. RIDE TO THE O
When a woman takes control of her own pleasure she is more likely to have an orgasm. For many women, this means the reverse cowgirl position! In this position she can take her partner as deeply or as shallow as she would like. She also can adjust her strides to a pace that suits her. Most importantly, she can rub her clitoris against him while she is in charge, enhancing her arousal and increasing her chance of having an orgasm. For many women the reverse cowgirl position creates the optimal environment for orgasm!
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3. GOING D FOR THE O
While many people believe that doggystyle (woman on all fours and man entering from behind) is a “man’s” position – the truth is, it is a fantastic position for the female O! In doggystyle the penetration is extremely deep – which is pleasing for both partners. Also, the curve of the penis can stroke a woman’s G-Spot, so if she is a lucky girl and can orgasm from internal stimulation alone – this position is a must do! Plus, if she wants to add in some clitoral stimulation while having sex all she has to do is reach between her legs and go to it. This position also offers options: bending your head toward the bed changes the depth, spreading legs offers clitoral stim, closing legs together makes it tighter. Just experiment and find out what works best for you!
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