1. VAGINASICLE!: If the idea of having an ice cube anywhere on, around or, yes, IN your vagina doesn’t appeal to you – let me just say: DON’T KNOCK IT TILL YOU HAVE TRIED IT! I am in no way suggesting that your lover should shove a bunch of ice cubes up inside your Va-Jay-Jay. I am, however, going to try to persuade you as to some wonderful ways to add some coldness to your oral sex! Let me pose this mental picture: your clit is a tender and nerve-rich little pleasure center. Imagine if you cool down your clit a bit with an ice cube and then your lover licks and warms up this cold, hard little orgasm center! Imagine the sensory overload! It is amazing! Or, if you like to live on the wild side, your lover can rub an ice cube all over your lips – and yes, push INSIDE of you – while he is performing oral sex! Your body heat combined with his hot breath and tongue will melt that ice cube and create an intense mixture of wet sensations!
AMP IT UP: If you are feeling like an ice cube pro, you can try one of my absolute FAVORITE ice cold-related activities. Use a smooth glass dildo that your woman will enjoy penetrating her and dip it in cold, cold water. Right before playtime, take it out of the cold water. It is going to warm up quickly, but if your lover is successful in inserting this frigid friend inside of you while performing oral sex – I guarantee you have never felt anything like it!
Special Note: While using ice cream may SEEM like a nice, fun and tasty way to cool things down – PLEASE DO NOT EVER USE ICE CREAM around, on or in your lover’s vagina! The sugar in ice cream will NOT mix well with the vaginal environment and the result can be disastrous. Sugar + Vagina = NO NO!
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2. GOOD VIBRATIONS: It should not be a big surprise to anyone that if you add in some vibrations (like with a bullet or vibrator) that oral sex is going to go to the next level! While your tongue and fingers feel divine – adding in something more intense will drive your woman WILD with pleasure! Don’t worry guys; we don’t want to replace you with the vibrator so feel free to lick and vibe at the same time!
3. LUSTFUL LISTERINE: I once had a lover who used Listerine as part of his “bedtime” routine. One night after his Listerine routine he came to bed and instantly went down on me! The sensation was crazy amazing! The coolness and menthol-like sensation really brought all of my nerve endings to life and I had such an amazingly intense orgasm. All he was doing was blowing on me! So, not only could you have great oral hygiene but you could give some great oral too with this tip!
4. HOT WAX: Before you shriek in horror at the idea of hot wax dripping on your lady bits, let me assure you, if you use a specialty wax, things will be amazingly HOT – in the best way! Sex wax candles are special in that the melting temperature is lower than a standard candle, and it cools much more quickly to avoid burning. Dripping hot wax on your lover’s body – especially nipples and clit – can be an erotically charged experience for both of you! Not only does it make a super hot visual as the wax dries, but, the initial hotness of the melted wax combined with the fast cooling and hardening of the wax makes a tremendously satisfying experience! Just make sure that you get edible wax, or, save the wax play for the finale!
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5. HOT ROD: Along the same lines as the cold glass dildo, you can take this tip in the reverse direction and heat things up! If your honey would prefer warm stimulation over cold stimulation, you can dip that dildo in hot water and use it to heat things up during oral sex! You will feel her body sizzle and squirm around the heat of this sensational sex toy!
6. TAP THAT: The clit is such an amazingly sensitive part of the female anatomy! It engorges with blood and comes alive just begging for attention when she's aroused. If you have never “tapped” your woman’s clitoris during oral sex, give it a try! Wait until you have gotten her all hot and ready and then take your finger (preferably two) and “tap” her clit gently! This will drive her wild! Then, if she is agreeable, you can move on up to a four finger slap – and – a full palm slap! The sensation of having your very aroused clitoris thumped in this way is a sensation that is quite surprising and sends shuddering waves throughout her whole body! Just make sure to not do it too hard, the idea is to stimulate not cause pain!