If you’re curious about the idea of restraint play and spanking, the Our Room Serve Me Kit has all of your bases covered. This kit comes with a small, relatively firm suede and faux leather paddle, a satin restraint, a bottle of champagne scented lube, and a small bottle of body dust.
I’d like to mention that this set is definitely for beginners and not for hard play. The paddle would not be suitable for hard spankings as it would probably break. It’s obviously intended to be more sensual and probably be on par with a firm bare handed slap. So if you are looking for a set for a more seasoned partner, you should probably look elsewhere. If you are new to restraint play and spanking or punishment play, then this would be a good introductory set.
The restraint for this set is a simple D-ring style, so it’s very easy to use and has a fairly decent hold. The satin material is very soft and comfortable. Because it is satin, after some especially hard tugging you would be able to free yourself from the restraint, obviously. But again, for a beginner set this could be viewed as a nice safety measure really and it isn’t intended to have a secure hold that you couldn’t get out of it you really tried. For its intended purpose it’s right on par with what it should be.
The pink champagne flavored and scented lube was nice because it was a very subtlety sweet scent and taste. It’s a standard water-based lube and lasted well, none to my surprise since Jo is known for their lubricant quality.
The body dust was the only item in this set that I was blatantly iffy on, but I mostly attest that to the fact that body dusts and powders and I don’t mix it seems. I think it’s a sensory or texture thing but it leaves me uncomfortable. When I tried it on one of my partners instead they said they thoroughly enjoyed it, and I did enjoy getting to taste it on their skin. It was quite intimate, sensual, and downright enjoyable for both of us. I just won’t be on the receiving end because of personal preference.