Believe it or not, most women masturbate in the same way each and every time, with little or no variation. We do know what we like and we tend to stick with it. However, there is more than one way to skin a cat – or play with a pussy – pun intended. So whether you are new to masturbation (WELCOME!) or have been playing for many years, here are just 5 ways for her to use only her fingers to self-pleasure.
START ABOVE THE WAIST
Masturbation should not be only about the clitoris and vagina – masturbation should be a full body experience. Women have sensitive and erogenous zones all over their bodies. So, why should we neglect them when we are self-pleasuring! We shouldn’t. So, start above the waist. Use your fingers to explore you stomach, ribcage, under the breasts and, of course, your nipples. You can tweak and slightly twist your nipples, pull on them gently or just rub them under your fingertips.
VAGINAL LIP EXPLORATION
We all know that the most sensitive portion of a woman’s vagina is her clitoris, but what about her vaginal lips? The inner and outer lips carry their own nerve endings and exploring them can be extremely pleasurable. Run your fingers up and down your outer lips, perhaps squeezing them a bit between your fingertips. Pull the inner lips – gently – and then a little more vigorously. Just pulling on the lips activates the lubrication glands and increases arousal.
OK, OK, NOW THE CLITORIS
Of course if you are going to masturbate you are going to touch the clitoris at some point. So, instead of rubbing your clit in the same manner as you are used to, change it up a bit. If you usually rub in circles, try up and down motion. Or, if you feel a little more daring try tapping it with your fingertips. Spread your vaginal lips open and tap it gently, then a little harder. Try different speeds and pressures. See what builds you up more and more. Use your opposite hand for a completely different sensation!
Learn The Basics Of Female Masturbation
Of course fingers do not have to be used externally only, you can also use them for some internal stimulation. You can reach down and use 1, 2, 3 or more fingers and insert them into your vagina. Just barely in, deep penetration or even a total in and out motion. You can do whatever feels good to you at a speed and depth that you find personally pleasing. Some women can achieve some pretty great G-Spot stimulation through internal stimulation via fingers. Experiment and see what gets your blood boiling!
Probably the most satisfying way to use your fingers during masturbation is to combine all the moves into one, fantastic session. Spend some time warming up and slowly seducing yourself with the not so deep moves. Then concentrate on the clitoris and some great internal stimulation. Vary the play each and every time; using your fingers to bring yourself to the brink of orgasm, and then back off and concentrate on another part of your body. See just how close you can bring yourself to orgasm before you need to stop. Then, when you finally want to make yourself go over the brink, do it with the combo of internal and external stimulation.
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