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5 Ways For Her To Masturbate Using Only Her Fingers

Posted by Mikayla to Women's Issues
How To Masturbate Using Only Fingers

Believe it or not, most women masturbate in the same way each and every time, with little or no variation. We do know what we like and we tend to stick with it. However, there is more than one way to skin a cat – or play with a pussy – pun intended. So whether you are new to masturbation (WELCOME!) or have been playing for many years, here are just 5 ways for her to use only her fingers to self-pleasure.

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Masturbation should not be only about the clitoris and vagina – masturbation should be a full body experience. Women have sensitive and erogenous zones all over their bodies. So, why should we neglect them when we are self-pleasuring! We shouldn’t. So, start above the waist. Use your fingers to explore you stomach, ribcage, under the breasts and, of course, your nipples. You can tweak and slightly twist your nipples, pull on them gently or just rub them under your fingertips.

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We all know that the most sensitive portion of a woman’s vagina is her clitoris, but what about her vaginal lips? The inner and outer lips carry their own nerve endings and exploring them can be extremely pleasurable. Run your fingers up and down your outer lips, perhaps squeezing them a bit between your fingertips. Pull the inner lips – gently – and then a little more vigorously. Just pulling on the lips activates the lubrication glands and increases arousal.

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Of course if you are going to masturbate you are going to touch the clitoris at some point. So, instead of rubbing your clit in the same manner as you are used to, change it up a bit. If you usually rub in circles, try up and down motion. Or, if you feel a little more daring try tapping it with your fingertips. Spread your vaginal lips open and tap it gently, then a little harder. Try different speeds and pressures. See what builds you up more and more. Use your opposite hand for a completely different sensation!

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Of course fingers do not have to be used externally only, you can also use them for some internal stimulation. You can reach down and use 1, 2, 3 or more fingers and insert them into your vagina. Just barely in, deep penetration or even a total in and out motion. You can do whatever feels good to you at a speed and depth that you find personally pleasing. Some women can achieve some pretty great G-Spot stimulation through internal stimulation via fingers. Experiment and see what gets your blood boiling!

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Probably the most satisfying way to use your fingers during masturbation is to combine all the moves into one, fantastic session. Spend some time warming up and slowly seducing yourself with the not so deep moves. Then concentrate on the clitoris and some great internal stimulation. Vary the play each and every time; using your fingers to bring yourself to the brink of orgasm, and then back off and concentrate on another part of your body. See just how close you can bring yourself to orgasm before you need to stop. Then, when you finally want to make yourself go over the brink, do it with the combo of internal and external stimulation.

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Date 3/29/2016
I like to finger if I have the time to take it slow... but I use my wand when I'm in a hurry ;)
Date 3/29/2016
TOYS definintely. Its the only way I can orgasm
Date 3/29/2016
marylin kinds
vibrators are easier but sometimes i like to take my time :)
Date 3/29/2016
W. S.
Toys... They make it WAY easier to reach orgasm. My fingers just aren't fast enough!
Date 3/29/2016
Toys, fingers, it doesn't matter to me as long as I cum lol!
Date 3/29/2016
My wife loves you use her fingers when we are dogie style for added affects but she love your toys!
Date 3/29/2016
Diane Weed
I'm a combo girl! I like to take my time and use both.
Date 3/29/2016
Dan P.
Wife's faster with toy! She says same thing " fingers just don't do it any more" man that's such a turn on to with fingers and toys! I love to help and even more to watch, and learn! Umm damn I better go make sure we have batteries! Good luck ladys and guys? Let her show u the way :) it makes for a far more fun time for both!
Date 3/31/2016
Way to Dan P. Most men are intimidated having His LADY use toys or fingers. I think it's sexy. Either or both, I like both ways.
Date 4/14/2016
I'm old school. Fingers are much more pleasing. Toys tend to rub me raw. :( Sometimes I enjoy a combination.
Date 4/14/2016
Once you've got arthritis in your hands, you have to use a toy, otherwise the pressure against your hand hurts too much.
Date 4/15/2016
Hi my name is randy I've just started seeing this awesome lady and we really enjoy having sex. She will have multiple climaxes and this will go on for hours not bragging anyway I'm having trouble getting off not complaining I really enjoy it but she starts getting sore before I can finish. ANY suggestions
Date 10/16/2016
Use plenty of lube !
Date 8/11/2017
The simulator
Every man should enjoy encouraging his partner to masterbate and pleasure herself -and try toy surprises for her She will thank you . I guarantee it!!
Date 8/22/2017
How deep can your fingers go when fingering I can only get a third of my finger in and I don't know how deep you can go because after I do it it hurts
Date 8/25/2017
I use my fingers, I only just started
Date 11/4/2017
I love it when I take my fingers and put lube on them then I slip them into my pussy and my butt and the clit and it just feels so good,I literally took a big candle put a condom on it and just slowly penetrated my pussy I moaned so hard it was magical
Date 12/16/2017
Both. I like using my fingers for a slower release but sometimes I'm too tired or just want to orgasm, so I will use toys. Toys can also give me dual stimulation and fingering can't. I love rabbit vibrators!
Date 12/17/2017
I'm only 21 and I love master bating I prefer fingers and toys
Date 12/19/2017
I like both. I love to finger myself in the shower but when I'm alone in bed I love to break out the toys :)
Date 1/7/2018
Regarding Bianca's Comment: She is so dialed into this topic. (spoken so elegantly) It would be nice for us guys to find MORE WOMEN with her ATTITUDE. I look forward to making a woman CUM HARD, LONG, & OFTEN
Date 1/24/2018
Date 1/24/2018
I’ve tried with my fingers over and over but I just can’t get it right. But toys??? Oh my word!!! I just started like a month ago and my boyfriend helped me to learn to use it and find my spot etc. it was and still is magical. He loves to just sit and watch me do it, it turns him on so much I strongly recommend you guys to do it together. Time to time I would video myself using it and send to him which he loves oh so much.
Date 2/2/2018
I prefer fingers! I only like to use one finger and I lay on my stomach. Rub ur clitores till your pussy is wet then hump your finger then u can rub again or stick the smooth side of a pen in ur vagina and go up and down to the speed u like rub your clitores with ur other hand while u r fucking ur pussy with a pen. That's what I do and it feels so good.
Date 2/16/2018
Tdevious. In need
I've loved to use my fingers for years I get off better with stimulation and looove toys.. I Havnt had a toy in a while wish I had one it would be what I need. I get sick of my finger. My Man has a huge duck I'm not kidding. It always hurts at first and takes a while for him to penetrate.once he does he can't hold back and last. Its hard to get him to wanna play like we use to. Dressing up. Try a lol anal. Toys are needed I think at this point. I think he's get turned on more to see a toy is going on my wish list!! ??
Date 2/16/2018
Tdevious. In need
((Edited^^edited))I've loved to use my fingers for years I get off better with clitoral stimulation and looove toys.. I Havnt had a toy in a while wish I had one it would be what I need. I get sick of my finger. My Man has a huge dick I'm not kidding. It always hurts at first and takes a while for him to penetrate.once he does he can't hold back and last. Its hard to get him to wanna play like we use to. Dressing up. Try a lil anal. Toys are needed I think at this point. I think he's get turned on more to see a toy is going on my wish list!! ??.. ** I need new ways of getting off. I love being eat In out but I need something more. Esp when I don't have the means to explore and get a toy.. S.o.s I need to get stimulated* lol.
Date 3/23/2018
Hot mess
I love to use both. I master bate almost daily. I love the way my pussy feels when it’s wet. Fingers are probably my favorite.
Date 3/26/2018
i’m playing with pussy right now and i’m to cum. i’m using my fingers and i wish someone was eating my pussy rn
Date 4/17/2018
I actually come faster with my fingers. I love toys, but they take much longer. I guess because the vibrations tend to desensitize the area. I love “edging” with my fingers or toys. When you finally allow yourself to come it is amazing.
Date 4/17/2018
Sandra Wenner
I love usesing my fingers. Just start trying the toys.
Date 4/18/2018
First time I started masturbating I wld use my fingers. But I always felt like my body wasn't reaching its full potential. I'm now using my wand and I absolutely love it ! The different speeds are totally awesome. I actually have to will myself to stop. I'm really eager to try other toys soon. :-D
Date 6/9/2018
Idk I just don't like fingering that much it doesn't give me enough pleasure... I tend to rub and explore my body more I want to get a vibrator but my parents are verry nosy and I'm afraid if they find it... :')

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