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How To Find Your 3rd For A Threesome

Posted by Mikayla to General / Misc Info
Having a threesome is a sexual fantasy that millions of people – both men and women – have!  It is also one of the most actualized fantasies as well.  In a 2013 poll of 165 people, 14% of them had at least one threesome.  So, statically, many people have engaged in this fantasy experience!  Once you and your partner have had all of the discussions about whether to ACTUALLY have a threesome, and have decided what gender to include (male or female) then it becomes time to actually find that 3rd person!  How does one “find” a person with whom to share this intimate experience?  Well, here are just a few ways to go searching for – and find – that 3rd for your threesome!

WARNING:  While you may be tempted to ask a friend, I seriously argue against using anyone you know, for obvious reasons.  I also highly suggest not picking up someone in a bar when you are intoxicated and can’t make any rational decisions.  Sex can be a risky thing, take all the precautions you need!  ALWAYS PLAY SAFE!
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THE INTERNET CRAZE:
  The world we live in nowadays is very internet dependent.  You can search for and find anything on the internet – including dates and persons willing to engage in threesomes.  There are specialty sites just for this purpose!  OKCupid has a couple searching for a 3rd option, ThreesomeMatch.com or Threesomewebsite.com
how_to_find_your_3rd_for_a_threesomeare specifically for the threesome option.  My point, there are hundreds of websites on which to search for your third.  What is nice about this option is you can search pictures, get to know someone virtually before you meet up, discuss it with your partner as you search profiles.  You can discuss STD testing and safety measures, all before you even meet!  It can be a fun and low stress way to find that third person.

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SEX CLUBS:  I absolutely assure you, sex clubs are quite legitimate and not just for movies!  There are safe sex clubs all over the world, if you know how and where to look.  Usually, you can just Google “sex club” and a bunch of hits will pop up for you.  Many of them have websites that advertise the “rules” of the club as well as discussing when there are certain events – such as Single Ladies Only nights.  Obviously, this would be a good place to find a female for a threesome since many sex clubs require couples only – and then single women.  Meaning, no single men are allowed.  So, if you are looking to add another lovely lady to your mix – then check out a sex club.  It is a good way to meet other people, to watch and to participate if you want.  It can also be a good way to network with other people looking to do what you would like to do without judgment.
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THE BAR SCENE:
  A little less overt than a sex club can be a simple bar (or there are also Swinger’s Bars) that can offer you a way to search for that 3rd person with your partner, in public, and be able to have a conversation with your choice.  As already suggested, I would not engage in any decision making if you are intoxicated or otherwise incapacitated.  Refrain from jumping right into bed with someone whom you do not at least know a bit about.  Keep in mind if this person is willing to go home and have sex with you within 15 minutes of meeting, they are probably doing so with lots of others too.  This puts you at risk for STDs and other dangers.  If you are going to find someone in a bar or swinger’s club, take the time to get to know them first, and then arrange to meet them again another time.  It is a safer way to approach someone and to bring that someone into your bed!

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Comments

Date 5/11/2015
MikeT
we've always wanted to add another female to spice things up, but either one of us chickened out or the girl backed out. has anyone else used one of these sites? curious to see if any legit 3somes that arent hired or sketchy really happen?
Date 5/25/2015
Kat
I definitely had some threesomes in college with girl and guy friends in the mix. I think it works best when the relationships arent that serious so there's less jealousy,(girls are so possessive) but maybe that's just my experience!
Date 6/1/2015
Todd K
I wish I wasn't "too timid" (ha) to get my wife to go to one of these clubs or swingers bars, if any even exist in my area...I feel like if she met the right girl that she had chemistry with, she'd be in to it.
Date 6/5/2015
V
@kat, thats kind of a generalizeation. guys can be just as posessive if he sees his wife being ****ed by another dude. it depends on the couple!
Date 6/12/2015
sexme
My boyfriend said he might be okay if we had a threesome with another girl, but not a guy! That seems kind of unfair to me!
Date 6/14/2015
Wendi
My husband and I have been married for 12 yrs now. We had our first MFM threesome with a good friend of his when we were dating. It was such an erotic experience and really opened up our sexual relationship. We have continued to enjoy threesomes and foursomes ever since. I would recommend it for all couples who have a solid, honest, and respectful relationship that doesn't have jealousy issues. We have found partners through web sites, clubs, and some have been friends. You have to see what you are most comfortable with. There are always willing participants, but being selective and careful will greatly increase the success and pleasure of the experience.
Date 7/30/2015
BebeCakes
My best girl friend used the Moresomes site for her 3way. My BF and I have a OKCupid account where we look for a third, but it seems like there are no kinky girls on there :(

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