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Learn To Love Giving Head

Posted by Mikayla to Women's Issues
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It is not a secret that many women out there do not like giving head!  There are various reasons for this – they think it is “gross,” or do not want to put “that” in their mouths, they are afraid or have distaste for swallowing his cum, or they simply do not get any joy at all out of it and therefore do not see the reason to do it at all – or rarely.  Listen, men love blowjobs.  They do.  They feel great and they offer a different type of sensation that many men say can be more intense than sex!  Plus, it is a great way to be intimate with him.  So, how do you learn to love giving head?  Can you learn to love it?  I say YES!


Here is the number 1 reason to love giving your man a blowjob – BECAUSE YOU CARE ABOUT / LOVE HIM AND WANT TO GIVE HIM PLEASURE.  Any satisfying sexual relationship is built upon the premise that you care about your partner’s pleasure at least as much, if not more than, your own.  So, if you know that your man enjoys getting a blowjob then you will want to give him that pleasure.  Use the fact that he really, truly enjoys it to fuel your own sexual gratification.  FEEL how much he enjoys it and tap into that sexual energy and create a sexual exchange that boosts your own desires.  Consequently, when HE feels that YOU are turned on by giving him oral pleasure HE will get MORE aroused and enjoy it even more which should, in turn, give you more fuel for your own arousal!  It is a wonderful circle of pleasure. 


OK ladies, I submit that you should love your man’s musky scent but if it bothers you, then simply ask him to take a shower.  Cleaning off his mini-him and having it smell like Irish Spring soap will likely dispel any of that “he smells bad because it is dirty” myths you have floating around in your head.  So if the reason for your hesitation is this – just ask him to shower or shower with him!  Giving head in the shower is a super fun experience in and of itself.


Perhaps your head hesitation is because you are afraid he is going to blow his load into your mouth and you will be forced to swallow it.  Firstly, any gentleman will have a conversation with you about whether or not you will swallow beforehand – so if he doesn’t bring it up, you do!  Tell him you are not feeling like you want to swallow (and personally, ladies, I think you should give it a whirl!) and ask that he warn you so you can finish him elsewhere.  Or, offer to give him a blowjob as a warm-up and then let him finish IN you.

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OK, is it really “hard?” I mean, yes, it is called a Blow JOB, but is it work?  Honestly, it can take some skill and dedication to the task and can take longer with some guys, but it should be FUN, and not feel like a job.  After all would you want HIM to feel like making you cum was a job?  Of course not, so why do women feel like it is hard to do?  So, how do you change your mindset from it is “hard” to “I love giving head?”  Um, pay attention to your man’s reaction!  If you see how much joy and pleasure you give him by giving him oral love, then you will really want him to feel that pleasure.  We tend to enjoy things that we do in life that make others happy – especially those whom we love.  We enjoy doing these things even when they take effort.


Can you see the possibilities for pleasure via power?  Having sexual power is an invaluable commodity in a sexual relationship and can be exhilarating!  When you give a successful blowjob you have ALL the power for that amount of time.  You have his most precious body part in your mouth!  You have to power to make him swoon, moan, wiggle and orgasm!  Put yourself into the mindset of embracing this power and make it your mission to wield your power in a way that will benefit both of you – make him orgasm!  When you give great head he will come back again and again for more and that is the greatest compliment he can pay you and should make you feel like the powerful seductress that you are!

Ladies, Do You Enjoy Giving Head? Why Or Why Not?
Let Us Know!

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Date 9/13/2016
if he wants to do it to me, i will love and enjoy doing it to him too!
Date 10/1/2016
Julie Morris
I love giving my bf blow jobs. It gives me a way to show him how much I love him and want to make him feel good.
Date 10/12/2016
Jen D
I absolutely LOVE giving head. My problem is my boyfriend of about 5 years could care less about it. (Trust me, it's not me Ive never in my 44 years of life have had a man be any less than blown away by my skills. When you love what your doing you tend to be good at it.) I wish he would want or let me suck his cock quite more often then I get to
Date 1/14/2017
Jon L
Giving pleasure is the power position
Date 1/14/2017
It's the most sensuous enjoyment of him - I feel the warmth of his belly and feel his "fur" on my face, can smell his natural scent (which is like the earth in spring), and hear the little sounds he makes. When I am in foreplay or intercourse, I cannot enjoy all these things at once, and some not at all. I also can enjoy knowing I am giving him the most intimate form of approval and pleasure known to a man. Why doesn't anyone ever point out all these wonderful things ?
Date 1/24/2017
Karla Simpson
I grew up in a super conservative environment. I was married right out of college and sadly my 23 year marriage has ended. I'm in a new relationship now and my guy loves oral. Both giving and receiving. I have never had too much experience with it but am eager to learn. I gave him a blow job the first time we were together and actually surprised myself at how well I did and how much I enjoyed it. The only issue is swallowing when he orgasms. It kind of makes me gag. I want to get over that so I'll just keep practicing. I thought I might try some flavored gels to use on him. If it tastes like strawberries I might just enjoy it lol!
Date 1/24/2017
Randa - TooTimid Office
Hey Karla! This is Randa from TooTimid. So happy to hear that your new relationship is going well and you are open to trying new things! I totally get gagging issue. It's an interesting sensation to say the least. Since you are looking for a flavored gel, I'd like to recommend this:
This is a water-based lubricant and it's available in strawberry (I love strawberry too!)
Thank you for sharing! Hope to hear from you again!
- Randa
Date 9/19/2017
Hey Karla, I totally love giving my man oral sex, it actually turns me on so much I can orgasm from it. Past experience with swallowing have been hit or ex drank nothing but Mt dew soda and his cum tasted very bitter, and hence would make me gag and spit it out. My bf now takes very good care of himself and doesn't drink soda and eats fruit daily and has a very very pleasant tasting cum. I can't get enough of giving him.blow jobs and wanting him to cum in my mouth.

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