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Why Is The G-Spot So Controversial?

Posted by Mikayla to Women's Issues

Ahhh, the G-Spot. Named after Ernst Grafenberg, the doctor who discovered it, the G-Spot is thought by many to be a fictional (that is, not real) place inside a woman’s body that when stimulated causes the most amazing orgasms possible. So, if this magical spot can be a source of such pleasure, why is it controversial? Well, because not every woman can have a gspot orgasm which makes many believe it is not real.

The G-Spot has an “approximate” location 2-3 inches inside the vaginal wall, on the upper (belly) side of the vaginal canal. Under the pelvic bone, and by the bladder, the G-Spot feels differently when rubbed against, as the skin is not as smooth there, and is often described as feeling a bit rough in texture. The spot itself is very small, maybe a fingertip in width.

While all women HAVE a G-Spot, not every woman’s is prominent enough to be easily stimulated. In some women, a simple examination with a finger will reveal a prominent G-Spot that literally sticks out noticeably from the vaginal wall. In others, the G-Spot is almost concave, hidden inside the vaginal wall and takes quite a bit of effort to stimulate. It is because the G-Spot is not created equally that it is so controversial, every woman wants one!

If you were to watch any “Squirting” porn film you would be totally and utterly amazed at the stream of orgasmic goodness that flows forth from these women as they have – what appears to be – nearly painful orgasms! This is our uninformed idea of what a G-Spot orgasm is. A water fountain type ejaculation. Many naysayers insist that it is not ejaculation at all, but instead the woman is peeing. Others feel like they are having a tremendous orgasm, but never get “the squirt.” These further differences in how women react to G-Spot stimulation just furthers the controversy. Some women may be having G-Spot orgasms, but they don’t realize it because the amount of ejaculate is minimal. The truth is, not every woman CAN orgasm from G-Spot stimulation (covered in the next section) and some who do experience orgasm will never squirt.

How To Find Your G-Spot

The question surrounding the G-Spot and orgasm goes like this: if a woman has a G-Spot but can’t have an orgasm during stimulation then doesn’t that prove she has no G-Spot? No. Not at all. Listen, women have clitorises and not all women can have an orgasm from them, but we still admit their presence, right? The issue with G-Spot orgasms is that it takes a long, long time for most women to have an orgasm via stimulation IF they can orgasm at all. Many women can never achieve that elusive orgasm and even fewer will actually squirt from it. Why? Well, firstly, a G-Spot orgasm is almost painful. The build-up to it feels like you have to pee really, really badly and a woman’s natural instinct is NOT to pee on her partner, so psychologically she has to get over the fear. Secondly, ejaculation from G-Spot orgasm has to do with a woman’s hydration level, ability to allow herself this stimulation and her partner’s ability to give her the continual stimulation needed to reach the orgasm. In short: it is not easy to have a G-Spot orgasm.

The majority of women will never have a G-Spot orgasm. Why? Well, if it doesn’t come easily to them they give up trying. After all, why spend hours and hours trying to have something that you may not even believe is real? The truth is, most women stick with what works – clitoral stimulation. They give up on trying to have any other type of orgasm because they have been told that “women don’t orgasm through intercourse” and this is not true. The truth is, not all women can have a G-Spot orgasm, even with the right stimulation.

Contrary to what you may observe in adult films, G-Spot orgasms do not occur in 30 seconds or less (if they occur at all). The golden rule for most women who can even HAVE a G-Spot orgasm is: the more orgasms you have had BEFORE you try for the G-Spot orgasm, the more likely you are to even have one. This is because as the body is aroused and climaxes occur, the inner vaginal wall swell and engorges (and this pushes the G-Spot more prominently out) and makes stimulation of the G-Spot slightly easier AND makes the likelihood of climax possible. However, this means some dedication to stimulation. IF you are playing with a partner (which makes things markedly easier) then he / she really has to put in the time on YOU and YOUR stimulation. Fingers and tongues can cramp before you actually get to that stimulation point. IF you are playing alone, this could be even more daunting! How long can you masturbate before you give up? The cold, hard facts are, you have to do the work to get the glory.

many people will still debate the existence of the G-Spot because of all of these factors. They may never try to find it, won’t put in the time to have the orgasm or, simply, give up trying. This doesn’t mean that the G-Spot doesn’t exist – it does! Unfortunately for most women they will never experience the immense pleasure from having a G-Spot orgasm. However, I submit that there are worst things to go in search of in life. So, why not decide for yourself. Go in search of your G-Spot orgasm. Have fun. Explore your body. Experiment with pleasure. The worst that will happen is you have a lot of fun – and, maybe a G-Spot orgasm to boot!

Is The G-Spot Real?
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Date 7/14/2016
Of Course It Is! I Have Had G-Spot Orgasms Before And They Are Amazing!
Date 7/14/2016
I think so. Although I never had a gspot orgasm, I know many woman who say they have, and I believe it
Date 7/14/2016
Heather T.
in my experience it is, though i've heard a lot of different opinions.
Date 7/14/2016
It can be a lot of work, but in certain positions, stimulating the G-spot can be easy!
Date 7/14/2016
I have never felt mine!!
Date 7/22/2016
My wife used to have me rub a spot on the outside of her abdomen. It would always give her a small organism. That spot is where people say the "G-Spot" is located. Interesting. I wonder if any others have been able to stimulate the "G-Spot" from the outside? Or, could it be something entirely different?
Date 7/27/2016
I can tell you first hand, as a squirter myself, it is not pee, it is a clear, warm liquid and depending on what I have been drinking, (especially cranberry juice and lots of water), my liquid taste sweet... Also, when I take an antihistamine in the morning for allergies, like Claritin D, I have VOLUMES of cum fluid...
Date 2/6/2017
Gee Kay
I was not even trying for one, but I was alone and so worked up into a lusty passion when I felt like I had to pee so bad. I was so hot I didn't want to hold back. However, instead of the muscles that control the bladder, the release came from deeper inside. The scent was not urine at all but a sweet, musky aroma that works like a pheromone, I even wanted to taste it myself although I haven't as yet. Let me tell you, when you have the first one you will kinda catch on to your skills to reach that level. I let myself get all uninhibited and don't think of anything disturbing. Since all my sex is masturbation due to a very disabled husband, I am able to adjust my needs which is an advantage, ironically... Just relax and do exactly what feels awesome. It works every time. Every single time.
Date 11/12/2017
Mike Z
as a man I can say I found the G spot on a couple of girlfriends and yes they squirted a lot and yes it has a different odor from urin ,,, to me it smells similar to buttered pop corn and sweet in flavor , yes it is found behind the clitoris behind the pelvic bone , my method for achieving the desired effect is like when you boil water , you start at the face lipps , the ears , the neck , shoulders , the whole chest area below the neck , the breasts and so on , it is best to know her favorite spots to be touched before finally diving in on the bushy mound where the man on the boat lives , by this time she is so hot you can cook eggs on her stomach , for the young gents , take your time don't rush into it ,,, you cant just jam your fingers inside without first stimulating all forementioned , I guarantee she will not be bored by you taking slow time with all the foreplay ,, no joke I spend at least twenty to forty minutes in each section before even penetrating with finger or penis ,,, this works for me ,, results may vary by individualism ,,, happy hunting
Date 5/4/2018
I discovered over time that I could evoke G spot orgasms. What I finally learned was that you had to prime the pump, by that I mean, get her off, and then recycle her with the G spot technique. The true test is the screaming. If properly done, the experience is so intense that she will scream because of the intensity of the experience. On one occasion, in the summer with there windows open, I was afraid that her screaming would cause the neighbors to call the police. It is such an intense experience that I have never not had them scream. I don't mean groan or squeal, I mean schreaking like someone would do if she was being stabbed. But believe me she is in no pain. Somewhere I read that the orgasm is similar in eeg s that it resembles a grand mall siesure. Her nervous system is so overloaded that she loses control. she will squirm and thrash around, sometimes with some force. Just make certain that she is not in pain. You are doing her a real service, an experience most women will never know, or know about. In the future she will know what is possible and demand it in all her relationships.

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