Your body has a secret weapon against your lover; your mouth! Your mouth is much more valuable than you realize! You can drive her wild with desire by properly using your lips, tongue and saliva like you would your fingers and penis. Your orifice is a treasure trove of pleasure-inducing tools, so it is time to use them to the best of your ability! To improve your foreplay and enjoy an evening of fanciful oral bliss, here are Five Ways to Please Her Orally!
1. KISSING ALL OVER: Nothing beats the basics! Kissing is a great way to get her aroused at the start of your romantic endeavor, but you can keep the lips on for as long as you like! Kissing quickly or aggressively inspires lust and can really heat things up. When done slowly, kissing can be extremely sensual and pleasing, especially when you move to other parts of the body. You can start with classic French kissing; a long, passionate make-out session is always a great way to excite her! But don’t feel restricted to her mouth; feel free to let your lips wander over her ears, neck and chest. You can even go lower to her stomach, thighs, vagina, legs, and feet to really drive her crazy. Whatever your speed, be sure to kiss her all over! Leave no skin untouched by your satisfying lips.
2. NIBBLING AND SUCKING ALL OVER: Show her how hungry you are! Nibbling and sucking can easily be coupled with kissing and inspires feelings of dominance and desire. If you are unsure what her threshold for biting is, begin lightly and gauge your force based on her reaction. The neck, lips and ears are all popular tasty choices, but you don’t need to stop there! Venture south to her breasts, stomach and thighs! These are all sensitive areas for you to munch at. A word of caution: biting and sucking can leave hicky’s, so if your partner is sensitive about people seeing your love marks or is employed as a neck model, you may want to avoid getting too rough anywhere above the chest. However, hicky’s can be a great way to flaunt your passion, so if she’s not a neck model or visiting her grandparents in the next few days, give her one! It will be a sexy reminder of your sexy evening for the days to come.
3. HER BREASTS: Give her boobs special attention! If you and your partner have been together for a long time, you probably do not have thorough foreplay sessions anymore and the breasts get left behind. Do you remember being young and touching boobs for the first time? You may have been too awestruck to notice, but she was loving it! Kissing and gently biting her breasts is a fantastic yet simple foreplay technique that is sure to satisfy. Put your lips directly on her nipple and suck away while one of your hands rubs and pinches the other. She’ll feel fantastic sensations that may have been forgotten, and you’ll feel like you’re back in high school, hiding under the bleachers with your girlfriend during lunch period! Well, I think that’s what the kids are doing these days… Either way, wetting her ta-ta’s is a great way to give her awesome oral pleasure.
4. HER VAGINA: Of course, one of the best ways to please her orally is to give her oral sex! I know you are probably shocked to hear it, but it’s true. This is a great way to please her orally because you get to focus on the best parts; her clitoris and vagina! Licking and sucking the clitoris will build her arousal and is a great way to make her orgasm, especially because most women NEED clitoral stimulation to do so. You can also incorporate fingering as well. Try rubbing her G-spot and sucking away at her clit to really satisfy her! You can also do this vice-versa; tongue her internally while rubbing her clit! Whatever you do, a fair tongue-to-finger ratio is the perfect recipe for total bliss!
5. BEHIND THE SCENES: This sensitive little treat is overlooked by many, mostly because people think it’s icky or taboo. The truth is, anal stimulation is extremely pleasurable for both men and women! Before going right for the goods face-first, make sure your partner is comfortable with it. It is also important to make sure that her anus and your hands and mouth are clean to reduce the risk of infection. Now that you are all squeaky-clean, you can begin with rimming. Slowly and lightly lick around her anus, perineum (or “taint”) and butt crack. When you and your partner are ready, you can lick faster and thrust your tongue deeper. If you are both feeling good about it, you can finger her anus! Slowly move in with just one finger and explore! Orally pleasing her anus is a great way to introduce anal play into the bedroom if you are a first-timer. This can evolve into other things such as using anal toys and having anal sex. However, in the beginning, light licking and gentle fingering will be a pleasure surprise that will have her begging for your tongue every night!
BONUS ROUND—YOUR SEXY VOCAL CORDS: Okay, so maybe I am reading to deeply into “oral” pleasure, but this is a great way to use your mouth and make her wild, same as the previous methods! Talking dirty can really excite her, especially if you start earlier in the day! In the morning, tell her all of the things you can’t wait to do to her. Tell her how sexy she looks. Call her on the phone and remind her to bring home milk and that you are going to blow her mind tonight. When you finally get her into bed, DON’T STOP! Whisper in her ear all the things she loves to hear. Keep feeding into her desire during foreplay and intercourse. If you are typically a quiet lover, moan to show her just how much you are loving her! The spoken word is incredibly powerful, so don’t be afraid to use it to your advantage!
I love kissing & biting my partners boobs. Sometimes I massage her body & apply eatable chocolate on her body & lick her. I love playing with her body with my hand. We sometimes watch porn videos on http://www.best10.net and various other sites to explore some new & amazing moves.
Love oral sex and intercourse but not anal.
As an elder woman, what do u recommend I use for lube. Before, during sex?