Over my nearly 9 years here at TooTimid I have been asked countless times: “Mikayla, how do you make yourself cum?” I have answered it, and usually the answer changes. Why is that? Well, because for me I like to change up my methods of solo play. While some are more effective methods than others at getting me to the big O – it is fun to experiment, change things up, and let my mood dictate how I am to play. Especially in today’s age where there are so many options of toys, movies and other sexual enhancement products to amp up play time! So, I am going to give you a voyeuristic view into my private masturbation time so you can see just what it is that gets me OFF!
DOWN AND DIRTY: We all can relate to that sense of urgency at times. When we just NEED to have an orgasm! When I feel that way, when it is a no-fuss, no-muss kind of day, I pull out my Magic Wand. I may not even get naked. Just pull down my panties, plug the thing in, turn it on HIGH, place it on my clitoris and just let the orgasms roll on in! A Wand Massager is super strong and allows me to have many, many orgasms in a very short amount of time. So, whether the kids are about to come home or I just need to get to sleep, this is my down and dirty method of making myself orgasm!
SEDUCING MYSELF: In direct opposition to the above there are times when I really want to take my time, enjoy the sensations, and seduce myself. Yes, I said it. Just because I am the only one in the room doesn’t mean I do not deserve some self seduction! I will light candles around the room, fluff up my pillows, turn on some light music, get out a few of my favorite toys, strip off all my clothes and crawl into bed. Then, I will slowly touch myself all over my body. My neck, arms, stomach. I will roll my nipples gently between my fingertips, scratch my thighs. Anything that would feel good if someone did it TO me I will do to myself. By the time I finally get to touching my vaginal area I am already aroused. I will take my time, slowly exploring myself, feeling, touching, rubbing. Usually avoiding the clit until I am about ready to BURST. Then, using my favorite glass dildo I will enter myself slowly. Building up and moving slowly. Eventually I add in some clitoral stimulation with my fingers. When I finally orgasm it is so intense that I usually have to go right to sleep! Now, that is the way give yourself some serious seduction!
WET AND WILD: Ladies, do you have a massaging shower head? NO? Well you have GOT to get one. I love my massaging shower head because sometimes you have to get a little dirty while getting clean in the shower! Some nights I turn on the water to a nice, comfortable hot temperature. I get my whole body dripping wet. I take my time and wash my body slowly and seductively. Then, I will position the shower head so that it is gently massaging my clitoris, opening my legs wide, to allow the hot water to tap, tap, tap my sensitive spots, and rush over my clit. I slowly build to a nice, steamy orgasm!
Tips To Achieve A Squirting G-Spot Orgasm
G, G, G SPOT: I am a lucky woman in that I can have a G-Spot orgasm if I set my mind to it. Sometimes I really, really want to have a G-Spot orgasm. When I do, there is a process to it that I rarely vary from. First, I get all my favorite bullets, my Wand, and a glass dildo with the curved G-Spot tip. I then will give myself as many orgasms as I can with the Wand Massager, allowing myself to become very, very aroused! Next, I will feel inside myself with my fingers to see if my G-Spot is swollen and ready to go. Then it is time. I will use my glass dildo (because it is stiff and allows for the strong stimulation I require) and will continually rub my G-Spot with it. When I feel that tell-tale build-up I will add clitoral stimulation with my bullet and change the angle of my toy so that every thrust causes it to rub against my G-Spot until I am squirming (and hopefully, squirting) with the joyful sensations of a G-Spot O!
FLYING FINGERS: When was the last time you used only your fingers to masturbate? I am not dissing toy play – heaven KNOWS I love my many, many toys! However, there is a certain nostalgic sensation that happens when we go back to our masturbatory roots. I’m serious! Occasionally, in the morning, my hand will slide down to my clitoris while I am still sleepy. My body becomes alive immediately with my tender touches. I will slowly rub circles around my clitoris, perhaps lazily opening my legs to afford myself that tension on my clitoris while my other hand reaches up to grab my nipple. It is a slow dance with myself that often results in faster rubbing of my clit until the orgasm washes over me like a warm ray of sunlight! Yup. I believe we all need to use fingers every so often, and it’s even better right after you wake up!
TINY TREATS: Vibrating Bullets are some of my absolute favorite toys! They are small, discreet, quiet, and powerful! They can be used during sex – or – during masturbation. Sometimes I want to have some multiple orgasms, but am looking for a lighter touch than my Wand. For those times I grab my Excite Her Silver Bullet from my toy drawer and simply tease myself directly on my clitoris until I have had an orgasm or 4! My little bullet buddies never let me down! Plus, these babies are great for cumming on the run. You know, traveling! Just slip one in your bag and you’re good to go - and cum!
VIVACIOUS VIBRATORS: Vibrators are some of my favorite toys to use because they are better for penetration. I love Dual Action Vibrators! Duals are toys that give you insertion PLUS clitoral stimulation at the same time. They can give me some of the most powerful INTERNAL and external simultaneous orgasms. When I play with a dual action (like a Rabbit Vibrator) I like to get naked and comfortable and allow myself the full range of play options. I always have lube on hand (depending on the toy type) and I will just find the right combination of speed and vibration that will send me soaring into the land of orgasms!
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