Talking dirty to your lover can be an absolutely stimulating addition to your sex life! A little well placed dirty talk (or even dirty texting) can amp up sex to a new level! It is not as easy as you would think, though, and many people shy away from it because they feel that they sound stupid or corny! Perhaps you feel stupid saying ANYTHING at all during sex! If you want to add a little naughty talk to your bedroom antics here is a quick guide on how to do it without feeling stupid.
START SLOW / BE CONFIDENT
If you are new to the world of the naughty speak then you will likely need to start slowly and work up to the more raunchy talk. There are many things you can say that will be arousing and “naughty” without being over the top dirty. The most important thing is to be confident in what you are saying. If you are giggling or laughing or stammering then that is NOT sexy AT ALL! You need to try and ease yourself into it and enjoy what you are saying. Use words and phrases that turn YOU on as well.
HOW YOU SAY IT IS IMPORTANT
The words alone are not what is going to send your partner over the edge. It is also how it is said. Whispers in the ear during an embrace, or breathless moans and exclamations of how good it feels, or even a little growl followed by a “you taste so good” can really send a sexy message! Keep your voice tone low and sensual, use the inflections of your voice to convey the erotic nature of what is going on, and make sure you alter your voice from standard speaking.
DESCRIPTION IS STEP 1
The easiest way to begin dirty talking is to use words / phrases that describe how you FEEL while you are with your lover or convey how much you love sex with them.
“Oh baby, that feels so good!”
“I love when you use your tongue like that!”
“You look so sexy tonight I can’t wait to get my hands on you!”
“I love when you are inside of me!”
“I love making love with you!”
NAUGHTIFY THE VOCABULARY
There is nothing worse than hearing dirty talk that sounds like an 8 year old is saying it! Using technical terms like “penis” and “vagina” are not sexy! Nope. This sounds like you are in sex ed class in 6th grade. If you can’t use the more dirty versions of the words than stay clear of any phrase that requires it!
Otherwise try something like:
“Mmmmmm baby, my pussy is so wet for you!”
“I love it when you put your hard cock inside of me!”
“Oh my God am I hard and thick for you baby!”
“Your tits are fucking amazing!”
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Many times what makes dirty talk so erotic and sexy is that it conveys a certain type of immediate need that must be fulfilled! You NEED this person so badly that you can’t help but command them to do something.
Here are some examples:
“I need you to lick my pussy right now!”
“I need your hard cock inside me at this moment!”
“Turn over so I can fuck that beautiful pussy!”
“Put your cock in my mouth I need to suck you now!”
“MAKE ME CUM!”
For some people the act of dirty talk is more of a conversational activity where the person talking dirty wants some response from his / her partner. This can really get things heated up if both of you are ready and willing to engage in some dirty banter.
“Do you like how my cock feels inside of you baby?”
“Can you feel how fucking wet my pussy is for you?"
“Do you want me to fuck you up your ass? Tell me!”
“Would you like to swallow my cum baby?”
“Is my pussy sweet tonight honey? Does it taste good?”
Is it just me or is it getting hot in here? Oh lord!
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