What makes anal sex enjoyable?
The anus is one area of the human body that has an extremely high concentration of nerve endings. Being as such, it is very susceptible to the littlest of actions, be it a finger, penis, toy, tongue, etc. Due to this large concentration of nerve endings, many people often experience pain when first entering into the world of anal play. Soon after, as that person learns to relax more and more that pain quite often turns into pleasure.
What do I need to do to enjoy anal sex?
One of the most important aspects of being able to enjoy anal sex is a warm, inviting, soft and safe environment. This most likely will require some planning beforehand, you don't want to have to stop in the middle of things to create this environment. Being able to be spontaneous is certainly one of the biggest turn-ons of anal sex. The most important thing you need to remember in order to enjoy anal sex is to RELAX!!! Once you are comfortable with the fact that you can relax, the second (or equally important) thing to do is to use PLENTY of lubrication. If this is your first experience in the world of anal play, I would highly recommend either the use of your finger or a small butt plug. The most basic and common small butt plug that we have is the Silcone Tee Probe which comes many different colors. Regardless whether you choose to start with a finger or a plug, the idea is to start small until you are ready to work your way up. After you have become accustom to the feeling of having an object in your anus, I recommend moving on to something a bit larger. A popular item for doing just that is a kit with butt plugs of various shapes and sizes. Our most popular kit is Juli Ashton's Anal Beginner's Kit. Finally you will want to decide which type of stimulation excites you the most. Is it the feeling of fullness that a plug can offer, is it the slight and gentle movement of a finger or is it the feeling of entry and withdrawal that you can get from a penis or an anal sex toy? Whatever you decide, I am sure this section will have some beneficial advice for you.
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