FLIRTING: Foreplay actually occurs (or should occur) way before you even set foot in the bedroom. One super easy way to keep the sexual tension taught is to flirt with your partner all day. This could be a flirty or downright dirty text, a slap on the behind when he/she walks past, a kiss on the neck when she is cooking dinner, or even a blatant grabbing of his “stuff” just because you can. All of these things get us in the mindset of sex - and that is an important part of foreplay.
KISSING: PEOPLE you should NOT forgo the kissing! Kissing is a very intimate part of any sexual relationship and it gets you both hot and bothered and ready for the next step. Passionate kissing involves groping each other, lip biting, tongue swirling, all over hotness! Kissing is a very important part of sex and if you are no longer kissing your partner it is important to ask yourself why! Bring the kiss back!
TOUCHING: There can be no sex without intimate touching. I mean the kind of touching where your hands explore each other’s bodies. Where here hands grab his abs, butt, penis. Where his hands are grabbing and tweaking her nipples, sliding down between her legs, rubbing her clit. Both of you enjoying the other’s body. This is intimate and sexual touching and it is an extremely important part of foreplay! Make your lover’s body your personal playground!
ORAL SEX: While, yes, oral sex is a part of sex many people (including me) consider it foreplay as well. Oral sex is so very important and not just to women. Sure, women can benefit from it because they are very likely to have an orgasm when having oral sex performed on them, but there is also a benefit to performing oral sex on your man. Not only does HE get the yummy experience of your mouth on his penis but YOU can also derive a lot of pleasure from doing it to him. This sexual act should be arousing to you as well! Look at the passion and the reactions your man gives you when you do it. Men, if your woman is giving you oral, then you should give it to her, too. No, this is not a “keeping score” type situation - you just should both enjoy each other in this beautifully sexy way. Oral sex is definitely one of the best parts of foreplay and is sure to get you both ready for the main event.
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