What better gift to give you lover on Valentine’s Day (and beyond) than oral sex? The erotic intimacy of taking your lover in you mouth, strictly for their pleasure is one of the most satisfying kinds of sex there is! Even though this is kind of sex is sought after, fantasized about, and hoped for on Valentine’s Day, lots of individuals still don’t understand exactly what to do when they’re, well, down there! I’ve come up with some skills and styles you should have under your belt when getting under your lover’s belt, so your can feel at ease. Remember, even if you have very little skill in the ways of licking and sucking, you should always convincingly act otherwise. Half the fun of oral sex is watching your partner doing it! Keep reading to check out my special collection of His & Hers Valentine’s Day Oral Sex Techniques!
*Quick Tip For Both: To help kick things off, and get your Valentine’s Day heading in the right direction (down south), prepare your oral sex areas! You can't be expected to perform or receive oral sex if your bits are untouchable! Trim your pubic hair a few days to a week prior to insure a soft, untangled landing for their lips. Come February 14th, you should spend a little extra time in the shower scrubbing to be fresh for your lover. Ladies, remember that soap and water is great for your pelvis, inner thighs, etc., but a rinse with only water should be used anywhere inside your labia majora. The vagina is a self-cleaning wonder. Finally, when you step out of the shower, put on clean undies! The shower won’t do anything for you if you’re sitting in day-old undies! If you want it, you better be taking care of it!
It’s no secret that men love receiving oral sex! We tend to think of Valentine’s Day as a women-focused holiday. It’s no wonder men created a “holiday” a month after Valentine’s Day called “Steak and BJ Day” to reflect their need for a different kind of romance. So, if you want to surprise your man with something a little less “hearts and chocolates,” and a little more “oral and orgasms,” here are some techniques to try:
SLOW DOWN: He doesn’t anticipate you dropping to your knees and taking all of him in your mouth. Yes, it happens in porn, but it’s not going to happen in real life, even if you are an experienced blower. Take your time with teasing him and getting used to the feeling of him between your lips by sucking on one inch at a time. You can put just the tip in your mouth, suck and lick, take it out, then put it back in a little deeper, and repeat until you’ve got as much as you can handle! It will drive him crazy with anticipation!
LICK 'N' HUM: You may have heard a bj referred to as a “hummer” in the past, and that’s no coincidence! Humming while giving oral creates sensational vibrations that radiate through your mouth and into his penis. This effect can also be achieved by holding a small vibrator, like a vibrating bullet, to your cheek while he’s in your mouth! It really pays to hum and lick!
TALK DIRTY...ISH: Did I mention yet that men love to feel like you’re enjoying giving them head? They do! When you’re offering up a blowjob, he want’s you to be completely invested in him - just like he should be focused on you when giving you oral sex! So, in this sense, talking dirty doesn’t necessarily mean you’re telling him he’s been naughty, but instead, explaining how much you love giving him head. Tell him that you’re going to lick him into a frenzy and surprise him with a few sucks! Moan, gasp, grin, and get some emotion into the mix while you use your hand to continue his stimulation!
FRENCH KISS TIP: Giving him good head isn’t all about sucking. Oh no! It’s about many different sensations coming together in a medley of orgasmic experiences. The tongue can be just as important during his oral sex, as it is for hers! Try puffing out your lips and gently french kiss the tip of his penis. Remember that just below the head, on the underside of the penis, is the frenulum - a very sensitive bit of skin. Take care when your swirling your tongue around him, to be very gentle in the area of the frenulum!
Fellas, it’s really okay if you haven’t got the whole “eating her out” thing down to a science, yet. Every woman is built differently and even if you, by some crazy chance, come across two Vs that look the same, the two women can desire completely different sets of skills! Take a few tips from these techniques and discover what makes her melt in your mouth!
FLAT, WIDE, LONG: Now I’m not talking about your member here, I’m talking about your tongue! It may seem like you’re pleasing her (and you are) but this is a really spectacular move to tease her, too! Each long stroke with flattened, wide tongue lets her feel the warmth and texture of your lovely licker. She can move her body against your mouth to build up her arousal. If those moves alone don’t get her off, you can move on to sucking, flicking, and swirling your tongue!
SUCK IT: Not just a crude saying from the 90s, this is a real tip to get her blood pumping. Literally! If you purse your lips on the sensitive skin around her clitoris and suck, it will drive more blood to the surface and make her more sensitive to your every move. Once she is more used to this sucking sensation, open your lips, widen your mouth, and plant it right over her clitoris. Alternate sucking and licking - without removing the suction you have on her - and she’ll be coming in no time! If you ever wonder why this feels so good, it’s because its the female equivalent of her licking and sucking on the head of your penis!
LEARN YOUR ABCs: This may be one of the oldest tricks in the book, but so many men forget about it when they are face-deep between a woman’s thighs! If you’re stuck and not sure what kind of sensation she needs, spell out the ABCs with your tongue! Each letter is a different kind of stroke, and you may learn - in the process of running through the alphabet - that she wiggles on certain letters over others. If she starts to breathe heavier on “O,” “P,” and “Q” but not on “E,” or “F,” then she may prefer more circular, rounded flowing strokes as opposed to up-and-down or left-to-right flicks! Try the letters at different speeds for an even better grasp on what she likes! Who knew the ABCs were so sexy?!
TIP TOUCHING: If you’ve gotten her all hot and bothered with an arousing array of wide tongue strokes, then it is time to switch to the tip...Of your tongue! Start by just brushing your tip along her outer lips, then the inner lips, narrowing down your playing field like a bullseye. Then alternate touches near the clit and near the entrance of her vagina. If she’s liking these quick, teasing touches, then you can graduate to longer moments of touching, add in your fingertips, or even the tip of a vibrator to heighten her pleasure! Just remember that whether she is naturally lubricating or not, anything you place on her should be wet! Lick your fingers, add an edible lubricant to the vibrator, do whatever you have to to ensure smooth, sensual strokes on her sensitive areas!
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