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3 Things To Remember When Giving Him Head

Posted by Mikayla to Women's Issues
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One of the most amazing and intimate things you can do for your guy is to give him a blowjob (aka head, a hummer, oral sex, oral loving).  Men LOVE blowjobs.  It feels amazing, it is something they can sit back and enjoy, and it is incredibly intimate and arousing.  Oh yes, if you want to have a satisfying and fully connected sexual relationship with your man, you must be an advocate of giving good head!  There are 3 very important things you must remember when taking to your knees, and here they are:

1.  ENTHUSIASM, ENTHUSIASM, ENTHUSIASM:  The absolute most important thing to remember when giving your lover oral sex is to have ENTHUSIASM!  This means that he can tell that you enjoy giving him this gift.  The difference between a bad blowjob and a good one or between a good blowjob and an off-the-hook one is ENTHUSIASM!  Remember that this is not a “job” despite its common name:  blow job.  It is something that should arouse YOU and him. Sexy Couple Foreplay It is intimate and a part of showing your man how much you want to turn him on.  Yes, enthusiasm is key in giving the best BJ he has ever had.  Remember, nothing says “I am enjoying this” more than looking up at him while you have him in your mouth!

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2.  LEARN HIS PENIS:  Gals, let me give you a hint:  all men do not like the same stimulation!  While most men will admit that they enjoy getting head even when it is not the best, the same men would tell you that if you take the time to learn what THEY like, it will be a thousand times better!  So, take the time to learn his penis.  Watch how he strokes it.  Pay attention to WHERE he grabs it (at the base, the head, in between).  How hard does he stroke it?  Does he stroke it back and forth, around in circles, just the head, or twist it?  Once you see how HE stimulates himself, you can then do the same techniques during your oral ovation and he will get off much better and with greater pleasure.  So, even if you have given a hundred BJs in your day – you need to give one that is specific TO HIM!

3.  VARIANCE:  While it is true that you need to know and utilize the tricks that your lover uses on himself, you also have to use your imagination and skill to give him a different experience every time!  A blow job is a marathon – not a sprint – and it should be treated as such.  Taking your time before giving him “the orgasm move” will make him weak in the knees for more!  If you know the tricks he likes the best, do them, just not ALL the time.  If there are things he has not experienced from you – try them.  Fondle his balls, run a finger over his taint, use a lighter touch, suck harder or more gently.  Just give him a blowjob experience that is different every time, even if you use the same tricks, vary how you use them.  Sometimes it is fun to make him cum hard and fast – while others it is a leisurely adventure!  Keep him off balance by varying your techniques and he will wonder what you are going to try each and every time!

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Comments

Date 6/9/2015
Brett
My lovely lady uses a vibrator on me LIGHTLY. Any stronger than that it just gets uncomfortable. But her bullet on the lowest speed against my shaft and balls... awesome.
Date 6/10/2015
Sexi
I like to think of myself as a "professional" in the area of BJs...I won't give away all of my tricks, but one of my husbands favorites is when I run my tongue in circles around the very tip. I love watching him squirm. :)
Date 6/11/2015
Ryan
Um. Sorry ladies, but no one is better than my wife. Why do you think I married her? Lol I don't know what she does to me because she usually blindfolds me so I can just enjoy her mouth.
Date 6/11/2015
beth hudson
i grab his asscheeks and get really into it like crazy!!!
Date 6/12/2015
Erin B
ive always had a good response from switching between a steady sucking and then light biting. Their so used to that feeling that theyre extra sensitive to that new sensation. Dont bite hard though- unless he deserves it!
Date 6/14/2015
Ari B
Def taking in as much as you can- deepthroat. Also the looking at him while you do it that it says on here is so true! They love watching- its like free porn, but better ;)
Date 10/18/2015
Stacie
I love, love, LOVE giving oral sex. I do love to deep throat and give a little swallow just as his tip hits the back of my throat. Or hold him deep and swallow a few times in a row. That gentle squeezing as you're holding the rest of him will make him squirm! Another trick is to grab a glass of very warm water on your next trip to the bathroom. Just before you take him, grab a nice sip and hold it in your mouth as you bring him into a very warm and soothing treat. Lastly, if your man loves some anal stimulation, this is a great time. Even if he hasn't tried it before, good head, one small lubricated finger and his prostate bring new pleasures. I just love exploring in general. Makes my mouth water just thinking of it.

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