Oral sex is a quintessential activity for all couples. It is highly pleasurable, extremely intimate, and provides mind blowing orgasms. In fact, for upwards of 80% of women, this may be the only activity that will render an orgasm during a sexual encounter! So, you had better pick techniques that are sure to please. While not everything works the same for every woman – we do like variance – there are certain things that are the “go-tos” when it comes to oral pleasure. Here are the 3 oral techniques that you can do on her that won’t fail you when you need to please!
CLITORAL CONCENTRATION: If there is ONE area on your woman’s vaginal area that you need to make absolutely sure to give attention to it is her CLITORIS! This is the most sensitive part of her female anatomy and it responsible for most of the sexual gratification she will have. So, you have to make sure you concentrate on this area. While there are different strokes for different folks – meaning not all women like the same pace or pressure – one technique that seems to be universally pleasing is to flick your tongue on the clitoris either up and down or back and forth. This provides direct stimulation to her clit (much like her tongue flicking back and forth on your penis head) and you can change the pace and pressure to her preference. You should be able to feel her clitoris engorging as you stimulate her and this is your cue that you are doing good! Whatever else you do during oral, this is a must-do technique!
How Oral Sex Can Help Her Orgasm
LICKING THE LIPS: Underneath the very sensitive clitoris are the vaginal lips – the labia. There are inner lips and outer lips. The inner lips frame the vaginal canal and are very sensitive. During oral sex it is IMPERATIVE that you not ignore her labial lips! You should suck on them gently, use your tongue to lick then, and use your fingers to massage them. If you alternate these actions with the above mentioned clitoral attentions your woman is sure to be writhing beneath you. This will make her extremely wet and slippery, making it easy for your tongue or fingers to caress her intimately and pleasurably.
FINALLY FINGERING: When women have the one-two combo of external stimulation (via your tongue and fingers as mentioned above) AND internal stimulation (via a toy or your fingers) they are more likely to have a powerful orgasm! That is what you want. So, while you are doing the above techniques also employ some internal stimulation. You can do this via your finger(s) – usually 2 will do – or a toy (like a small vibrator or dildo). Then you continue on with your tongue flicking and vaginal massaging while stimulating her internally with your fingers or toy and she is sure to explode around you in a breathless, sweaty, moaning, exhaustive orgasm!
Say it with me: flick the clit, lick the labia and finally, fingers! Orgasm and repeat!!!
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