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How To Finger Your Lover

Posted by Mikayla to Women's Issues
How To Finger Your Lover

Fingering: The act using one’s fingers to sexually stimulate a female partner externally (i.e. rubbing her clitoris) and internally (i.e. inside her vagina). Fingering is a great and very important part of foreplay for a couple. It can be used with oral stimulation, during intercourse (rubbing of the clitoris during sex) or as its own main event. Many women find the act of fingering to be extremely stimulating and can often orgasm from the combination of external and internal stimulations. Oh yes, fingering is a must do for you! So, if you are looking for a few pointers on how to do this, read on and see what you may discover!

CAUTION: Before you do any fingering at all make sure that (a) your hands are clean and (b) you have trimmed and filed your fingernails! A woman’s vaginal canal is very sensitive and rough nails HURT! Just a kind heads up.

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SLOW GOES IT
Despite what you may have seen in porn, women do NOT appreciate you jamming your fingers into them haphazardly without any other foreplay or warning. That can HURT! You have to remember to go slowly. Arouse her with kisses and touches and caresses. Then, when it is time to go down below, go SLOW! (Use the rhyme to remember: Go Below – Go Slow). Touch her externally first. Explore her vagina gently with your fingers. Rub her clitoris. Get her AROUSED and ready before inserting. Then, once she is warmed up, you are ready to proceed.

ONE BEFORE TWO
Once again, despite what you have seen in porn, you can’t take your whole hand and stick it right up into a woman! NO! We need to adjust to you, to your fingers. Start with ONE finger. Slip it inside of her. Move it around gently. In and out is fine – just go slow. Use some oral sex along with the internal moves to keep her stimulated. Then, if she seems to be adapting to the first finger, slowly start to insert a second. This increased fullness should excite her immensely. You can increase the pace – a bit – and also continue with oral attentions or rub her clitoris with your other hand. Use her cues to tell you what to do. If you want to go for a 3rd finger – ASK HER! She will know if that will be pleasing or not.


HAND GESTURES
Believe it or not, fingering takes a bit of finesse. It is a gentle dance between your fingers and her vagina. It should be sensual and loving – not hard and rushed. You should enjoy the feelings of her wetness, relish in the warmth and inviting nature of her most sacred spaces. You should vary your movements and watch her reactions to see what she likes. Some women like a steady in-and-out motion. Others prefer more external stimulation combined with oral. Still others like it to be a bit faster once they are warmed up! Whatever you do, make sure you are taking your cues from her.

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ADDING ORAL
One of the most stimulating things you can do while fingering your lover is to add in oral sex. The saliva makes everything slippery and wet and the direct clitoral stimulation that she will receive while you are performing oral combined with the fingering motions – well, let’s just say it will be explosive for sure! You can (and should) alternate using your tongue and fingers all over her! The difference in sensations will drive her crazy and the stimulation changes will keep her body guessing! Just remember: every woman is different so figure out which buttons she wants you to push for her!

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Comments

Date 7/28/2015
grey
usually with oral is what makes her really hot and wet. she cums real fast that way.
Date 7/28/2015
Samantha P.
My BF typically rubs my clit during sex to help me along. If we have a lot of foreplay beforehand I sometimes come long before he does~
Date 7/29/2015
H. J.
She likes a lot of clit stim. during sex or with a toy. Clit stim during sex is the only way we orgasm together
Date 7/30/2015
ANNIE32
sometimes hes tooooo gentle and i want him to go at me rough! :)
Date 7/30/2015
Meagan
My girl loves when I run a finger vibe over her nipples, belly, thighs, all leading to her wet pussy. She quakes with anticipation ;)
Date 8/1/2015
Tate Learnings
I tend to start and finish with fingering her. First to get her all warmed up and last to get her to come!
Date 8/3/2015
BebeCakes
Instead of poking or going in and out, I like to rub the inner walls of her va-jay-jay with the pads of my fingers. Once she gets excited, I take two fingers and press DOWN (towards her bum) instead of up towards her g-spot before I start thrusting. This kind of pressure can give her a more "I'm getting fucked" feeling than a "I'm getting poked by a finger" feeling. Nina Hartley taught me this in one of her famous "how to" videos!
Date 10/29/2017
joe
I enjoy going down on my wife to get her off this is what gives me enjoyment love to make her come however it is hard to get her to let me down with my tonge it can be frustrating
Date 12/17/2017
Lynn
I like clit stimulation best with a few fingers inserted. I like when I can feel him pressing on my G-spot
Date 12/18/2017
susan
i like when he starts at my breasts and nipples and teases me all over before moving lower. I liked to be warmed up as possible and begging for more when his fingers finally make it to my opening
Date 1/7/2018
Rob
Great Comment Susan,,,,,You have the topic COMPLETELY COVERED,,,,I wish I had a special lady like yourself
Date 5/27/2018
Stormin'
I take my time with my fingers. I start by cupping her whole pussy first before I even insert a finger. I start with one by rubbing her clit, then insert 1 and massage her g-spot. When she starts to get really wet, I ask her if she wants two fingers nad her answer 99.99% of the time is yes. When I have two fingers in, I gently massage her G-spot then I start to pull up and she starts to buck up and down with my finger motions. I get her to have a orgasm, somethime twice before she gets on top of me and rides me for 20 minutes until I shoot.
Date 5/27/2018
Bill
I agree with the steps above. How ever, my wife and I have recently found out that she can squirt. Not the intense streams that you see in porn but more of a heavy flow of her juices. After completing all of the steps above, you will want to insert your finger or fingers into her vagina palms up. Once inserted you want to move your fingers as if you are making the (come here jester). It is important that you do this soft and slow. At the tip of your fingers you should feel her G spot. It should feel buffer than the rest of her vagina. That is what you are tickling gently. After doing this for a while you will notice that her G spot is swollen. Once this has happened you need to change it up a bit to step 2. Step 2 You want to insert 2 fingers still palms up. Then with your fingers still in her vagina, you move the palm of your hand against her clit. Now you should curle the fingers that are in her creating a hook with your fingers. Know with everything locked into place you should be stroking her up and down NOT in and out - up and down. The curled fingers are hitting her G spot and the palm of your hand is rubbing her clit and the outter part of her vagina. This is stimulating a lot of her at once. Keep this going for a bit till she is moving and squirming all about. Once she is telling you that she is all in ( with her body language), it is time to pick up the pace. Remember to be gentle. But you will need to move your hand in a fast motion up and down. After a moment our 2 she will release. If she has never done this before she may not let you continue because she thinks she is going to pee. Make sure that you talk to her before and tell her that it will feel like it but she is not peeing. Some women can squirt streams and some gush like my wife.
Date 5/27/2018
Juicy T,
I love when my partner pulling my hair softly while kissing me on my neck and moving toward my breast. Licking my nipples as she makes her way to my thighs with her tongue. Fingering my wet pussy to an awesome shivering orgasm and licking all my delicious juices.
Date 5/27/2018
Man of men
My wife loves one finger at a time and often takes 4 fingers to stretch her out and ready for Fat Jack penis extender which is huge at 9.5” long and a pop can wide in diameter. She easily cums 3 or 4 times during Fat Jacks reaming of 20-30 minutes. Mmmmmmm
Date 6/10/2018
George
I use my fingers to heat my wife up and make her so hot that she cums and cums until she begs me to put on the strap-on. I then make her cum some more. I then remove the strap-on off and fuck her with my cock and after I cum I then use my fingers to make her cum once more.

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