Hi all! My name is Mikayla, but my friends call me Mika. I have been around TooTimid for going on 10 years now – that is a very long time and I have loved every second of it! I came to TooTimid for the same reasons that many of you have – to find great sexual enhancement products and to talk to others about all things sex. At the time I was struggling in my marriage and was looking for suggestions and help. What I found was a wonderful group of people who helped me to make decisions and see things clearly – and I subsequently ended my marriage (which was OK, because he was gay anyway!) That explains a lot, huh? I have stuck around TT to help other people, review fantastic items, write articles that hopefully help people to understand and be comfortable with all things sex, and to be a part of a company that I really believe in.
A lot has changed since I first signed on to TooTimid all those years ago. I have had another child – I have two wonderful and smart boys ages 13 and 7. I got divorced (as mentioned) and have had many wonderful (and some not so wonderful) lovers since then. I moved to Canada for a year to pursue my Ph.D. in English and am slowly working on finishing that here in the states. I work at a local university as a college English professor – yes, I have the professor glasses and everything – and I love what I do. I have written 4 books now – 2 children’s books, 1 murder / mystery book and am almost finished with a book of erotica. I love to write and hopefully one day you will see my work on a shelf in a bookstore somewhere. I absolutely love to cook and bake and make a fantastic tiramisu cheesecake! I love spending time with my boys, being a soccer mom, meeting new people, traveling and, of course, helping when I can at TooTimid. I have a lot of passions in my life and I am so blessed with good friends, family and colleagues who love and support me.
I get e-mails from so many people who ask me what my favorite things about sex are – or what my favorite products are. My favorite thing about sex is that it is a completely pure way to express love or intimacy with another person. Whether that person is your spouse or just a lover – sex is experimentation, expression, comfort, excitement, anticipation and pleasure all wrapped into an explosive activity! Sex is personal and enlightening – and having sexual openness and freedom is a way to find your true self! As for my favorite products, well, they are always evolving as new products hit the market. Here are my current top 5 favorites: