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5 Things He Wants To Try During Sex

Posted by Mikayla to Men's Issues
What Men Want To Do In Bed But Are Shy

We all have those sexual activities that we enjoy, and not all of them are things that are the “norm” in many sexual relationships. Sometimes we wish we could ask our lover if we could do something to them but we are really too shy to ask. We may be afraid of being judged or having our lover freak out in some way. There are lots of sexual activities that take a lot of courage to ask our lovers to do. Here are a few of the more “standard” requests that your man may want you to engage in with him. The most important thing is to always be respectful of your partner’s response – whether yes or no – and do not push activities that are not pleasing for both of you and NEVER do anything out of the norm without permission!

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For many couples, “rimming” – the act of licking your partner’s butthole – is a pretty standard practice. Actually inserting a finger, anally, is a little less so. Anal sex, the least so. For some, just asking if it is OK to do this may bring a lot of angst! You probably could do rim her and she wouldn’t realize or freak out about it, but anal penetration is something you should never just “do.” With any non-standard sexual practice you may want to ask. Especially since anal penetration takes some preparation and lubricant to avoid discomfort. Not to mention, when engaging in any anal play it is important not to go from the butt to the vagina. You don’t want to give your woman an infection.

While using sex toys in bed may seem pretty standard and common to many couples, for others, the idea of using a toy, specifically a vibrator or dildo, during sex is out of the norm. Men are VERY visual creatures and the idea of using a toy to penetrate their partner while they watch and control the action (or watch HER use the toy on herself) is very appealing. Check out our Lia Dreamer Vibrator below, this is the perfect toy for him to pleasure you with internally or externally.

Many men have the fantasy of being with their woman while she is with another man – but – they do not actually want the other man there. Here is where the idea of a DP comes in using his penis and a toy at the same time. One in the vaginal entrance, the other in the anal entrance. Men have a hard time asking for this sometimes because of the anal requirement. Even if your lover is an anal aficionado, she may not want the double penetration. You should ask though, cause many women find this a very pleasing activity.

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Many men have the desire to ejaculate on their lover’s face or chest (among other places). This practice is usually frowned upon by some women as they may find it degrading (which, it really isn’t). Even if he wants to try it just once, asking is a hard thing to do. Women have a stigma with this activity at times, and tend to overanalyze the act of it. If this is something you would like to try, just assure your lover that it is not about disrespect in any way, and that you care for and love her. This may make her more willing to try it!

In the scope of “things to do to her in bed,” this one is on the outskirts of a fetish. However, statistically, this is an activity that many men have wanted to try at least once. As with ejaculating on her body, a request to try this activity may require the assurance that this is not a control thing or a “marking territory” type activity. Explain to your lover why you want to try it, what you find arousing about it. Be gentle in your request for it and always respect her decision to NOT try it.

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Date 2/16/2016
Useing a sex toy on me? Yes pls!!
Date 2/16/2016
would like to ttry anal, wife not into it
Date 2/16/2016
honestly i wouldn't mind being whipped or spanked a bit in bed
Date 2/16/2016
Terry C.
cum in her mouth
Date 2/27/2016
Have my wife fuck me in the ass with a dildo. Had a butt plug and that was so good, but want the dildo now.
Date 4/14/2016
I would LOVE LOVE LOVE for my BF to use a toy on me!! Or watch me using a toy. It would make me feel so sexy and proud of myself and my own ability or reactions if I can make him happy by simply being happy myself!!
Date 7/1/2016
I would love to screw him with a dildo or some type of anal toy. Ive licked his rear, had fingers in his rear and omg, I love to do it! But no toy in him yet. He has put his own fingers in there when he was jacking off for me. I bought some vibrating anal beads I want to use on him but we've only used them on me. He has a fleshlight I love to watch him use so the anal beads have gone to the back burner for now.
Date 11/17/2017
I wanna give her sex or oral while she wears a buttplug. It turns me on to think of both holes being filled.
Date 11/20/2017
Brian Westworth
I would love to gently tie her up and put a blindfold on her and tease her with a feather and a paddle so she never knows whats coming
Date 11/21/2017
Regular sex kinda gets boring need to add some extra like being hand cuffed and spanked and ankles and wrists tied up sounds really good to me
Date 1/12/2018
I was surprised when my partner told me he wanted to eat my ass. I was nervous at first, but he told me that nothing about my body grosses him out and he just wants to enjoy more of me, so I agreed. It felt really weird at first, but I like it a little more every time :-)
Date 1/15/2018
I'd love it if my partner wanted to try buttplugs or double penetration. She's reluctant right now but it makes me hard just to think about.
Date 3/12/2018
As I've gotten older (50) I've really started wanting to try EVERYTHING! I just worry about videos getting out. lol Soooo I've started exploring anal play, butt plugs, spanking, bondage and ALL of it has been AMAZING! My friend started giving me rimmers and tried double penetration (omg!) I've been missing out!!! Now I want to explore BDSM (?) bondage, etc... lol Unfortunately single at the moment. :( All I can say ladies is give anal a try!!! Just start with LOTS of lube!!! Relax and just have fun!
Date 5/8/2018
I disagree with all men want 5 things No peeing No anal dildo No wanting another man with my wife No cumming on her face I love to use toys on her Blind fold her and strap to bed Use vibrators nipple clamps and oral on her for multiple climaaxes for her. I love fore play !!!!
Date 5/8/2018
I agree with Dave, cut out the dirty stuff, what I like is discovering what is new and possible. When you get your eyes checked, he has you look at something, and then tries something else and then asks which is better there or that. Try the same with her. Get a large pot of lubricant and begin, any where you like. And keep asking the question. The worst outcome could be that you don't learn anything. Just that you got to play with her most interesting parts. Nine chances out of ten, you will get an unexpected response from something new. Just keep playing, but engage her in the conversation. She may have to endure countless orgasms until the research is completed . But that's the price of science. . I doubt that she will complain. Most women experience only a small portion of what is possible. There are nerve endings all over that never get stimulated in their entire lives. I met up with an old GF one thing led to another. Suddenly she said to me "what are you doing to me?" She had never had such an extreme explosive experience. That part of a woman is like a pile of dynamite, it just sits there until somebody lights the fuse, then BANG. Screaming and tearing the sheets. NO one ever mentions the cervex, hit that and she will leap into the air. It is so good and powerful, and unexpected. It's a shame so many women never even know of their potential, or ever find out. It's like having a v8 but running only four cylinders. Connect the other four and notice the difference. It doesn't need any explanation, it becomes self evident. This will make her so happy that your needs will always be met and then some. some how she will never have a "headache" . A happy satisfied woman, grantees a happy man.

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