How To Spot Your G-spot
Disclaimer: just like with any orgasm, there is NEVER a true guarantee of having one no matter what you try, so if you do not achieve one, try and try again!
Gotta find the G: Common sense will tell you also, if you do not know where the G-Spot is, you have to find it first! There are ample articles to tell you how to find it, but in short here is where it is: the G-Spot is located on the TOP (belly side) of the vaginal wall, about 2-3 inches in from the opening. It usually feels spongy in texture, unlike the rest of the vagina. Feel around for it with your finger. Get familiar with it. Be able to find it easily.
1. FINGERS FIRST
The easiest way to stimulate the G-Spot is with your fingers. The G-spot requires FIRM and CONSTANT stimulation. It is not as easy to achieve this with the penis, so for the first stimulations or if the woman is not as sensitive and requires more stimulation, the fingers are the way to go. Place the index finger and middle finger inside the vagina, find the G-Spot, press FIRMLY up, and while continuing the pressure, wiggle the finger in a “come hither” motion. Continue to do this paying attention to the engorging of the G-Spot.
2. TOYS TOO
For most women, G-Spot orgasms are a hard-won victory. They require constant and firm stimulation (see above) AND clitoral stimulation. So, if you want a greater chance of giving her that golden orgasm, you will have to do double duty and stimulate her clitoris. This can be done with tongue or fingers, but the angle often gets too hard to maintain. So, use a mini-vibrator or bullet to assist you in your quest. Also, toys can be very helpful for the actual G-Spot stimulation as well. There are a variety of G-Spot toys that are made from firm plastic, silicone or glass that can help you to keep that pressure when your fingers get tired! Toys can be your best friend, guys, give it a try.
3. PRESS THE PUBIC ARCH
Since the G-Spot is on the belly side of the vaginal wall, often pressing down above the pubic arch (under the belly button and above the mound) will force the G-Spot down and make the internal stimulation much easier. Imagine it as sandwiching it between your palm and fingertips. You can even adjust the pressure and angle depending on the reactions of your partner. This can be the difference between having a G-Spot orgasm and not.
4. SEX STIMULATION
It is possible to stimulate the G-Spot during sex, but it takes some positioning and dedication to the task. First, put her belly down with a pillow under her belly and pubic area. This pushes the G-Spot down and makes it easier to stimulate. Enter her at an angle that presses DOWN onto her vaginal wall. Usually, leaning forward over her will do the trick. Then, use slow and shallow strokes to stimulate her G-Spot and use a vibrator or bullet to help seal the deal!
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