Life is easier when there is someone there to help you understand the scary stuff. Remember what it was like the first time you woke up in a wet spot? Or how about when you got your period in school? You sort of knew what was going on, but it wasn’t until you chatted with your best friend that you totally understood. “Ooooooh,” you’d confirm, letting what they had just laid on you sink in. You relied on your best friend to give it to you straight. And that’s what I’m going to do. Give you the straight talk about sex toys.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting, owning or using a sex toy. Sex toys enhance together time and sooth alone interludes. I want to yank my hair out every time I get an email that starts off with, “Dear Jen, I’ve never had a toy before…” And it’s not so much out of irritation towards the writer, but because I remember being that person. That toyless person. That confused, toyless person.

I have put together a page full of things I think every sex toy novice should have: a glossary, a description of toy materials, a what’s what of lubrication, a guide to cleaning, and Jen’s top FAQs. Please browse through and educate yourself. I hope as you become more familiar with the toys you will feel more comfortable buying and using them.

Beginner's Home | Guide To Lubricants | Different Types of Materials
Sex Toy Glossary | Top Sex Toy FAQ's | Cleaning your Sex Toys