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Mikayla
 OK, time to fess up….how many of you reading this have
played “Spin the Bottle?” What about “Truth
or Dare?” I know, a blast from our post-pubescent past,
right? “Sex” games have been around as long as
I can remember – and I am most sure there are more today
than there ever have been. While these somewhat mild teenage
versions were fun to play with the neighborhood boys and girls
– the adult versions of the sex game are MUCH more fun
and erotic!
You may ask yourself, why play a sex game? Well, sex in and
of itself is a bit of a “game” if you think about
it. A game of seduction; a waiting game (how horny can I get
and how long can I stave off the orgasm); and a mind game
as well! What better game to play with your lover, right?
Well, there are also more formal games that couples can play
– actual board games where you both are winners –
there are also bondage games that can bring a new sense of
excitement to your sex life. Any sex game can reignite a stagnant
sex life, help break the ice in a new relationship, or even
just be something different to do on a Tuesday night.
Reinvent and rework your inner teenager and open yourself
up to some kinky and fun sex games!
STRIP POKE-HER ANYONE??
It might seem like a novel idea to keep the lovin’ alive
through a board game, but for many couples – new and
established – board games are the beginning of a new
and hotter sex life! A common way to begin down this new road
to lover-ville is to try a couple’s game. These come
in different styles – from simple and sweet, to sultry
and seductive – and either can be a great start. For
example, 52
WEEKS OF ROMANCE is a card game that reminds you to add
romance on a daily basis. The cards are labeled “For
Him” and “For Her” and they have simple
suggestions like, “give your partner lots of hugs and
kisses.” While this seems like a very simple idea, sometimes
we forget to just give our partner a hug or a kiss or to say
“I Love you” – and this card directs us
to remember to communicate our love for our partner. Not all
the cards are this tame – they do heat up a little more
– with the idea of keeping the ROMANCE in the relationship.
This is great for new couples especially because it can definitely
get the ball rolling – so to speak.
Along the same “timid” line of game is the KAMA
SUTRA BOARD GAME. My hubby and I love this game –
and play it every few months. With cards that suggest that
a couple talk, cuddle and yes, get into intimate positions
– the Kama Sutra game connects the couple spiritually
and emotionally – as well as introduces some basic Kama
Sutra positions and ideas. In this manner, couples can open
up to each other – talk about fantasies, desires, likes
and dislikes – as well as find themselves naked and
horny and ready to share some of their new ideas. You can
never learn too much about your partner in regards to sex
– and this game takes you merrily on the path.
If you are interested in really stepping things up –
and even bringing some friends into the mix – then the
game BUMP
AND GRINDS is for you. This game combines drinking, stripping
and “naughty” cards to bring your next small gathering
– or personal night – to a whole new level! Learn
from each other – teach one another – and be sensual
and sexual! Any or all of TooTimid’s COUPLE’S
GAMES can bring a new found passion as well as laughter
and fun to any relationship!
TIE ME UP TANGO…
As I have discussed on more than one occasion, BDSM (or SM)
is not just for the super kinky! It is not all about leather,
whips, humiliation and pain (although it could be) but it
is about FUN, TRUST, SEXUAL EXCITEMENT and bringing a couple
together! Couples can experiment with so many different levels
of bondage play that there is literally something for everyone!
Sex games that involve bondage truly bring sex to a new level!
If you are going to embark upon the world of bondage play,
you have to read my comprehensive beginner’s
guide to Bondage. This will give you some great information
about BDSM, as well as more ideas and suggestions for products.
When couples experiment with blindfolds
for example, they can experience sex from a whole new level.
Taking away the sense of sight brings a new excitement to
sex play. Imagine lying on the bed, having your lover blindfold
you. You can HEAR him, SENSE him but cannot see him. You have
no idea – is he naked? Is he near? What will he bring
to bed with him? Your lover can tease you with surprise by
bringing a toy, ice, wax or whatever floats your boat. Experiencing
sex without sight is something that you REALLY have to try.
If you are ready to step it up, consider some light restraining.
Sexual restraint does NOT have to be scary – but conversely,
can be EXTREMELY erotic! Most people who embark on the journey
of sex with restraint find themselves aroused just being tied
up! For me as well, the very nature of being “bound”
and “helpless” renders me instantly aroused! There
is an element of trust with bondage – you definitely
have to trust your partner. However, the ironic thing is –
no matter how much you trust your partner – being bound
is something that instantly makes you…..nervous….no
matter how many times you have been tied up!
 For beginners, I recommend some FURRY
HANDCUFFS. These are soft and sensuous – and they
also are easy to use and remove. Since handcuffs do not really
inhibit movement (or escape – just kidding) they are
great choices for beginners. Simply, bind your lover with
the cuffs and let your imagination run wild. The best way
to experiment with handcuff bondage is to either role play
– like love prisoner and bad cop – or to play
“can’t touch me.” This game – in case
you are unfamiliar – is when the person bound is not
allowed to touch their lover. You do not necessarily need
handcuffs for this game – but it sure adds more fun
to the mix.
Comfortable with bondage already? Then step it up with some
UNDER
THE BED RESTRAINTS – or a RESTRAINT
SYSTEM! KINKY
CUFFS are another option for those into bondage play.
These bondage kits have Velcro cuffs which are soft, but also
strong. They can be used to lightly restrain – or totally
immobilize- your lover. This, of course, adds new dimension
to your sex play by putting one person in total control of
the other. When you combine the elements of restraint with
blindfolds you really change the perspective of sex. Sex in
general puts you in a vulnerable state. You are opening up
– literally and figuratively – to the other person.
Being naked, vulnerable, open, trusting – these elements
are so overemphasized when bondage is utilized. This makes
sex super intense and I suggest everyone try it!
ROLE REVERSALS
It shouldn’t be a big surprise that role playing is
one of the most common sex games that couples play. From the
“Naughty Nurse”; “Stripper / Patron”;
or “Hooker / John” – role playing is free
and fun to do. There are endless possibilities when it comes
to role playing – and everyone has a different idea
of what would be fun and sexy! Role playing can be as detailed
as you want – from full on costuming, props –
even going to a different location to “pretend”
can add a dimensional quality to the playing!
Some couples find that being someone “besides themselves”
enables them to act different – or more sexual. Many
women, for example, find that pretending to be a prostitute
or stripper enables them to get more in touch with their “sexual”
side. Pretending to be someone in the sex industry puts a
sort of new perspective on the sex play.
For many men, pretending that they are with someone besides
their partner can be extremely erotic and exciting. Perhaps
taking the time to go the extra step during role playing can
make all the difference. For example, actually “paying”
for the sex in the prostitute / john scenario can liven things
up quite a bit (as well as giving the woman some incentive
to do her best “work.”) All in all, role playing
is a fun way to bring your innermost fantasies to life –
with someone whom you can trust!
TRUTH? …GO WITH THE DARE…
It is important to remember that you can turn anything into
a sex game! Including the standard, teen-age truth and dare
game. Although, while you used to dare to kiss someone, now
you can dare to have sex with someone. The dares should help
you to connect with your lover as well as bring them into
your fantasy. If you love oral sex with your lover, you can
dare him or her to give you oral sex. If you are looking to
experiment with anal sex, you can dare you lover to do you
anally. Truth or dare can be just as fun and exciting as it
was in your mother’s basement at 16 – in fact,
the dares can take on a whole new level now!
The whole idea of a sex game is to connect on a new level
with your lover. Whether you purchase a board game, some restraints
or just use your imaginations – sex can be a new experience
when you utilize fun and fantasy. Do not close your mind to
new possibilities – and remember that even the longest
lasting relationship can use a little fun sometimes!
So…take your partner, go online to TooTimid.com and
check out all the possibilities for sex play! Hey, why play
Monopoly when you can play NAKED!!!!!!
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