by Mikayla

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NOT ALL PORNOS ARE ALIKE
As I have already alluded, not all adult films are exactly alike. Much has changed since the first films hit the scene. New directors such as PAUL THOMAS are making films that are full-length features. Albeit these films have graphic sex scenes, there is an honest attempt to make the film more of a “movie” with main characters, a plot, even interesting plot twists. PAUL THOMAS definitely has thought about changing the image of porn.

Some of his titles that I can whole-heartedly recommend are THE VISION, TO DIE FOR and FLASHER. All of these films have top-notch actors and actresses and also have storylines that will actually entertain you. If you watch any Paul Thomas film it is easy to see why he is adult film’s most coveted director!

Along the same lines there are many ADAM & EVE productions which literally blow the mind of the viewers – and it is more than the beautiful screen actors that does it. For example, one of the hottest and most watched productions by this studio is PIRATES – which is a fantastic film for anyone. This film is co-produced by DIGITAL PLAYGROUND (a women owned and operated studio) and it is one of the absolute hottest films around. LADY SCARFACE is a newer selection that is really one of the best attempts at turning a Hollywood blockbuster into an adult feature! I would HIGHLY recommend this to any single person or couple!

There is also a trend that follows the modern technology – many studios are recording their films in high resolution, with digital sound and picture and are really putting in the effort to make the film interesting as well as erotic. When you view a film that is done with this artistic style, you will clearly see the difference. For example, I am always impressed with films by LAURENT SKY. He is a producer who REALLY knows how to add the glamour and glitz to an adult film. One of his latest creations is BREA’S CROWING GLORY – which stars a brand new actress in her first film. The close-up shots in this film are out of this world! No shaking camera, no fuzzy shots, no awkward transitions – just what you want to see – the ACTION! I would recommend his films to anyone interested in the “art” of porn.

Of course, if your heart lies with the classics, you can still find such good ole’ films like DEBBIE DOES DALLAS and THE DEVIL IN MISS JONES – in their original form or redone. These films are very interesting to watch – because these actresses have REAL boobs, no fake tans and NO SHAVED vaginal areas! You can tell an older film just by analyzing the women in them. However, the classics are classics for a reason – and watching them can be humorous as well as arousing!

FOR A WOMAN’S DISCRIMINATING TASTES
It is no surprise that most adult films are not “women friendly” – so what do you suggest if your woman wants to watch a “better” adult feature? Well, many of the above mentioned features that boast a better storyline do appeal to women because they are more than just “wham bam” sex scenes. Women like to watch adult features that warm them up a bit, give them something else to digest. These films have a multiple appeal – women like the stories – men like the, well, the sex!

There is also a director who is well known for bringing a woman’s point of view into focus. Once a renowned adult star, CANDIDA ROYALLE now directs films that are known to appeal to women. They have storylines (even if in the undertone) and they are more erotic and tasteful. While there is sex – graphic sex – the actresses actually keep their panties on for more than a hot second. In her films the sex is more as it would be with your own lover – slower and sensual. I can recommend FEMME and CARRIBEAN HEAT for starters. Keep in mind that these films are a different genre in a sense – they are much slower paced than the average film – but the sex is still HOT!

When in doubt, one of the best choices for a newbie or shy woman are educational videos. While you may think that these films will do NOTHING for your arousal level – let me assure you, they are just as sexy – and intimate – as other adult features. There are a few major lines of educational videos – the LOVING SEX series is critically acclaimed and is hosted by Dr. Patti Britton. She attacks such areas as seduction, sex in unusual places, the proper way to arouse your lover and even Kama Sutra techniques. She describes techniques and then has real life couples illustrate them. The sex is real, the intimacy is real, and the feelings are genuine. It is definitely a great way to start learning about techniques – and each other.

Then there is a random sampling of videos that describe and illustrate how to better your sex life. There are a multitude of categories from BETTER ORAL SEX TECHNIQUES, BETTER TOYS FOR SEX to even ANAL SEX TECHNIQUES. As these films are meant to teach and educate – they are less “blatantly sexual.” This approach definitely appeals to many, many women! There are even some by famous adult film star NINA HARTLEY on such things as ANAL SEX and BLOWJOB TECHNIQUES! Now, if you want to learn karate you find a good sensei, if you want to learn about sex – ask Nina!

EROTIC INTERVENTION
The important thing to remember about ALL adult geared cinema is that these types of films are wonderful for igniting (or reigniting) your sex life. Whether you watch them together or alone – adult films can be an enlightening and arousing experience! If you find your partner hesitant, let him or her know of your wish to be entertained in this way. Tell him or her you want an “erotic intervention” and explain your desires to become closer in this way.

However, always remember that many people (especially women) are really uncomfortable with adult films – so respect the wishes of your lover and never push erotic entertainment on them at any time. If you have a hesitant lover, ease them in slowly with educational films as opposed to hard core porn. You may be surprised as his or her reaction

In conclusion, always remember that adult features are for ADULT ENTERTAINMENT – they are not a bible for life or for relationships. They feed fantasies and are NOT based on realities. Use them for why they were intended – to arouse and excite you. Any other use would be an abuse of purpose. Until next time always remember, sex is adult play time – and adult movies fit the bill perfectly!

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