By
Mikayla
In
response to my popular articles on Sexual
Positions (advanced
guide), this 2 part (or maybe 4 part) series on Oral
Sex positions is sure to get you off your knees and into
different positions – pleasing YOUR MAN – more
than you could before! In this article oral sex for MEN
will be addressed. So ladies, if you are looking for some
tried and true oral sex positions to have your man begging
for more – read on, take notes and try them TONIGHT!
Let me begin by saying that oral sex is an extremely intimate
part of foreplay. Many people find it much more intimate
than regular sex. It is a powerful position to be in. When
a woman has her man’s penis in her mouth she has the
power to make him drop to his knees (or at least cum in
her mouth). Oral sex is a great precursor
to sex – and is enjoyable for both men and women.
Always remember to play safe- and if you do not know your
partner is STD free – use dental dams and unlubricated
condoms! No sex is worth an STD!
KNEE PADS ANYONE?
One of the most popular positions for giving oral sex to
a man is the WOMAN ON HER KNEES! Why? Easy access to the
legs, butt, balls, shaft and head; a great view for the
man; easy to deepthroat; very submissive position (great
turn on for both partners) and great position for the man
to ‘help’ guide his partner.
I personally LOVE to give head kneeling in front of my man
– but let’s face it, it is a little hard on
the knees – especially if you are in it for the long
haul. How to interact this? Put a pillow under your sensitive
knees – or – sit on a small stool. When I was
pregnant, kneeling wasn’t always an option –
so I utilized a small step stool and sat comfortably while
delivering mouth-watering oral to my hubby!
When doing the kneeling position remember to take advantage
of your vantage. Meaning, look up at your man often with
his shaft deep in your mouth – this is a HUGE turn-on.
Use your nails and run them up and down his legs and inner
thighs. Pull and lick on his balls and take your time getting
his shaft into your mouth. You can command him to keep his
hands behind his back – thrusting into your mouth
– or, you can have him lovingly (or forcefully) grab
your head and help you to swallow his manliness. Either
way is sure to satisfy him!
TAKE A SEAT
Another great ‘woman in control’ position is
when the man sits (either on the end of the bed or a chair)
and the woman kneels or sits before him. This position is
good for deepthroating,
vantage point, ball play and transitioning to sex in on,
quick step. This position allows the man to lean back and
relax while watching his lover take control of his penis
– and it allows the woman to ‘service’
her man orally and look up at him while she is doing it.
This position also allows for quick ride ons! Meaning, when
you are happy with the erectile status of your man, you
can jump on up and take a ride! Being able to go from oral
to sex quickly can be a real power trip – as well
as just plain fun! If you are giving your oral treat naked
– or scantily dressed – this is even easier
of a transition! So ladies, ask your man to take a seat
and give him an awesome oral treat!
GETTING LAID ORALLY
One of the most comfortable and frequently utilized oral
positions is the man lying down and the woman in various
positions between his legs. You can literally lay down between
his legs with yourself dangling over the edge of the bed.
This position gives you the vantage point of being able
to slither yourself up and down his body. You can start
the licking and sucking at his face (mouth, ears, neck)
and move down to his chest, then down to his thighs and
over to his penis! You can continue to go from penis to
chest, to penis to thighs, to penis to….well, you
get the idea. It is because your man is totally exposed
to you that you have the freedom to roam his body with your
hands and tongue.
An alternative to the woman between the legs is the woman
BESIDE her man. This puts you at a sort of upside down vantage
point with your man’s penis – but it also gives
him GREAT access to you! You can either lie down with your
bottom up by his face – still on the side of him –
or you can kneel over him with your bottom UP in the air.
This way as you are giving him oral delight, he can roam
your body and tease you unmercilessly. This is particularly
a great position for him to finger you or use a toy on you
while you are giving him oral lovin’!
While this may not be the most comfortable position for
giving oral – more experienced women can pull it off
without a hitch! I personally LOVE to give my hubby this
upside down oral love – and can deepthroat quite well
sideways. Your lover can also hold your head, stroke your
hair and see you bobbing up and down on his manhood from
his vantage point. Furthermore, you can go from oral to
sex in one position change! So ladies, get naked for this
position because you will most likely get a treat as well
as your man!
69 IS DIVINE
Of course we can not forget the great attributes of the
69! What is the 69 (just in case you do not know!) It is
when you place YOUR genitals by your partner’s face
and he puts HIS genitals by yours. You are lying on top
of (or next to) each other with either the woman on top,
or the man.
Man on top 69 oral lovin is a great position for those submissive
gals. Your man can lower his penis into your mouth and you
can use your hands to guide him in and out. You can also
pull and suck on his balls, push down on his butt, help
him to go in and out of your mouth. Meanwhile, your man
can deliver fantastic oral loving to you too. This is a
great position for those women who love ‘total exposure’
or being spread wide open. The man normally has to push
her legs open to get access. Speaking of access, if your
man likes a little anal attention – this is the perfect
position to do so!
Woman on top 69 oral lovin’ is one of my favorite
oral positions. With the woman now on top, she can raise
herself up and use her hands to satisfy her lover while
grinding her hips onto her lover’s mouth. This is
a great position for anal attention for the woman as well
– or toy usage combined with the oral. It is overall
a great position for dual oral sex – as well as for
transitioning to regular sex. When you have had enough oral
orgasms you can slide yourself down for penetration! Also,
if you are so inclined, you can go from penetration back
to oral then back again.
ALL TIED UP
Even if you are not particularly fond of bondage, an oral
sex position that I have found particularly stimulating
in my experience is when the man is sitting on the bed,
with his back to the headboard (or wall) and he is ‘tied’
in any manner. Arms tied up or behind his back – this
position gives the woman complete control over the situation.
He is dominated by her, and she can revel in that fact.
I love to tie my hubby’s arms to our bedposts and
then take complete control of him. I can tease him with
my mouth, then sit up and tease him with my breasts –
or even stand and tease him with my vagina in his face.
Then, if the mood strikes me, I can sit on him and have
awesome sex that I control completely! Having your man in
this position can be a little daunting for him at first,
so if you like it, then ask him if it is OK, but never tie
someone unless they consent!
DINNER OR DESSERT?
Sex in other parts of the home are a wonderful way to spice
up the sex life! Having oral sex on the kitchen counter
or dining room table can be SUPER hot! When your man sits
his butt upon a kitchen counter, the height is almost exactly
right for giving him oral lovin! The same goes for tables
– he can lie down and you can feast on his nether
area – or even climb atop for a sexual treat! Make
sure your table can handle the weight!
The kitchen is a great place to get other inspiration for
oral – such as food! Using whipped cream, peanut butter
or even just some nice, cold ICE can make oral sex a whole
new experience! Let me tell you, my first oral experience
involved ice cubes and I have never looked back! Most men
LOVE the addition of temperature or texture – so do
not confine your oral sexcapades to the bedroom only!
GETTING WET
Along the same lines as moving out of the bedroom comes
the notion of having oral sex in the shower! This is the
perfect place for oral because it is very private, the water
pounding over your naked bodies is a turn on within itself,
you can kneel or sit on the side of the tub for access –
AND – the best part – you are both CLEAN! IF
you have any qualms about oral due to hygiene – then
in the shower it should be!
I love to join my hubby in the shower, wash him down (and
up) and then suck him to completion as I sit on the side
of the tub! He gets a great vantage point, I get full access,
it is always a turn on to be in water – and we are
both clean getting dirty! Shower oral is one not to be missed
– and if you haven’t tried it – I suggest
you do TODAY!
I hope that this short article inspires you to take oral
lovin’ to a new level (or location!) Being stuck in
a sexual rut sometimes has much to do with the positions
you are trying! Oral sex should be a wonderful part of sex
– and switching up the positions can bring your whole
sexual night to new levels!
Remember to always play safe – and ask consent of
your partner before any tying up! Try surprising your lover
with oral the next time he least expects it! Drop trough
in the middle of the dining room and go to town –
or, start with him lying down and then scotch yourself onto
his mouth! The possibilities are endless – and your
imagination is the key to sexual happiness!
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