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Mikayla
FOR HER
**Remember, women like things a little more romantic than
men – so don’t go “ick” and “ugggh”
when you read them!
 #10: Kid free=stress free
– I do realize that no every woman has kids –
but, if you do – one of the best gifts you can give
your lover is some kid-free time! Take the kids to the MCD
play land, rent them a movie, take them to Grandmas –
just keep them out of the stress free zone where Mom is. Let
her do whatever she wants – read, knit, watch TV. If
you do not have kids, then still give her some ‘her
time.’ Get her all the supplies she needs and let her
be! Believe you me, after a few hours of quiet time, she will
be begging you to come to bed!
 #9: Clean House = Clean Mind –
Yes, I am suggesting you clean. Perhaps this can’t be
done ON Valentine’s Day, after all most companies don’t
count it as a paid day off work. Do it the weekend before,
or the Friday after. Clean the house or apartment! Dust, do
laundry, dishes, vacuum, clean the toilets! Trust me, if she
has a sparkling clean house she will be FOREVER grateful!
While you are cleaning, send her to her room to read or draw
her a bath in a clean tub! This is perfect for new Mommies
(trust me, I would LOVE this!) Now, if your lover keeps a
clean house already – then find something else to lend
your helpful hand to. If still nothing – move on to
number 8!
 #8: Breakfast in Bed –
Now, keep in mind that this only ranks as #8 if you actually
MAKE the breakfast! Whatever your honey likes – fruit
salad, eggs, toast, English muffins – you MAKE it and
bring it to her on a little tray with a flower and a card.
Remember fellas, Egg McMuffin = No, No – homemade eggs
or waffles = morning whoopee!
 #7: Sexy Somethings –
Valentine’s Day is the holiday for lovers and what better
to surprise your honey with than some tasteful lingerie with
some sexy toys, oral sex gels or massage creams. Try to find
lingerie that is more romantic and less slutty. When you think
of sexual enhancement products, try to get tasteful and couple-oriented.
Couple’s games, massage oils, light restraint kits –
all of these suggest couple fun! Stay away from things she
might be offended by!
 #6: Artistic Vision –
Are you a poet and didn’t know it? The truth is, women
LOVE when their man shows his sensitive side! Giving your
lover with a card with a personalized poem inside (or even
just some romantic words and true feelings) will send her
over the top! Make it sincere and romantic and not overtly
sexy (nothing like: roses are red, violets are blue, boy I’d
really like to f*ck you!). Present it to her with one red
rose (or flower of her choice) and she will be reminded of
it all day!
 #5: Feeling the Footsies (and more):
Foot massages are the gate to the best sex of your life! Every
woman in the world is stressed and a 10 minute (or one hour)
foot rub can take loads of that stress away. This massage
offer has to come with ‘no strings attached’ meaning
– you have to give her a REAL massage, with massage
oil and everything! Massage whatever ‘parts’ she
wants done, but remember – NO STRINGS! If it leads to
sex (and it probably will) GREAT – and if it doesn’t
– then it doesn’t! Your woman will LOVE you for
it –and feel so much better after.
 #4: A Garden of Flowers
– I think everyone knows that women love flowers (most
women do anyway!) However, there is a good way and a bad way
to send flowers. (1) KNOW what type of flower your lady likes
– there are different kinds (2) at least a dozen (anything
less is a waste) (3) get good ones from a nice florist, not
the grocery store on the way home from work (4) send them
to her at work to make a great impression AND bring her some
more when you pick her up or get home.
 #3: Womanly Things –
It is no secret that a woman’s idea of fun and a man’s
are TOTALLY different. For example, perhaps your woman has
always wanted to go see a musical like “Wicked”
and you would rather have your teeth knocked out. IF you want
to show your lover how important she is to you – get
her tickets to the show! This could be anything from a ‘girlie’
movie to an art exhibit – whatever she wants that you
normally would never do – do it for her!
 #2: First Date – Yes,
you can ‘date’ your partner even if you have been
married for 10 years! One of the most romantic Valentine’s
Days that I ever had was when my hubby and I went on a date
like it was the first. Write her a note the day before asking
her on a ‘date.’ Get a babysitter (if needed),
get dressed up, go to the front door to pick her up. Give
her flowers and open the door for her. Ask her questions like
it is your first date and encourage her to play along. If
possible, re-create your first date by taking her where you
did on your very first date. Relax, connect, enjoy and try
to recapture that ‘first date’ tingly feeling
that you had when you first held hands, kissed or made love!
It will be another night she will never forget. If your first
date was lame (sorry guys, could happen) then make up for
it this night and blow her away!
 #1: The Full 9 Yards –
This means a whole day of surprises! Start with breakfast
in bed (homemade of course!), followed by flowers sent to
her place of employment (or home),frisky phone calls or notes
left in her briefcase or car, then an invitation to dinner
at whatever restaurant she wants or even better, MAKE DINNER!
After dinner use your imagination – either go to a fantastic
show or a movie, then come home and pamper her with a massage
or draw her a bubble bath. Make the day about her. IT is not
about money spent – but TIME spent! Try to make it memorable
and stress free! IF the mood is right – and why wouldn’t
it be – then make love with lots of foreplay and orgasms
for both!
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