I had to chuckle to myself when I read your letter. I am 38 years
old, and just watched my first porn within the last 2 months.
I was brought up in a Christian family and I guess I had a very
strong opinion when it came to porn. I had voiced (rather loudly,
I might add) my opinion on many occasions to my husband. After
being together for 8 wonderful years and going through many trials
and tribulations, I thought that we shared EVERYTHING. Well, guess
what? Several months ago I found an entire video/dvd library of
lesbian porn that I never knew existed. Of course, I blew up,
freaked out, cried, accused, etc. You can imagine the scene. This
went on for over a month, and finally he took my feelings into
consideration and threw all of it away. I had offered to watch
porn with him so that maybe I could have a better understanding,
but I never seemed to get much of a favorable reaction to that.
One evening, I went out and rented 2 porn movies and brought them
ho me. Of course, just the thought of going into "one of
those stores" made me turn 3 shades of red. I decided I was
going to do it and after sitting in the car in the parking lot
for 20 minutes trying to get up the nerve to go in, I found myself
standing in the middle of hundreds of boxes with pictures of people
doing unexplicable things to each other. I began perusing boxes,
without looking at the signs, and noticed that none of them had
any women on them. Yes, here I was, my first porn experience,
and I was looking at GAY movies. I finally settled on two and
brought them home. My man was surprised, and a little apprehensive
because porn had always been a very private thing for him. We
settled in and, I must say, enjoyed the show. He was a bit uncomfortable
at first, but after about a week and several movies we found that
we were having a ball, trying new things, and truly enjoying the
experience. I have even decided that girl on girl action is very
sensual and erotic!! My husband told me the other day that it
was so nice to be able to share and talk about masturbation and
to not be at all embarrassed. This experience truly brought us
closer when we didn't think it was possible to be any closer.
My point .. every woman should try it at least once, maybe even
a few times before forming an opinion. It is bound to spice up
your sex life and is great for open conversation about what you
do or do not like sexually. We are continuing to rent movies so
that we can find what really turns us both on and what we are
both comfortable with.
Name: Ellen From Indianapolis, Indiana
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