What A Girl Wants (in bed)
Whenever I have spoken to men about women, the thing they most frequently ask me is, “So what do you girls really want in the bedroom?” I used to try and explain the entire spectrum of wants and desires that women desired, but I was always answered by a blank stare with a slight hint of confusion from my male counterpart. After about a dozen or so of these experiences I simply resorted to answering, “Orgasms. We’re only interested in earth shattering, mind blowing orgasms.” The men seemed relieved to have a simple and straight answer.

But it’s not so simple and straight of an answer. I polled some girlfriends on their likes and dislikes. Here is what I found out.

I’m pretty straightforward—I don’t need anything fancy to satisfy me. I love when a man pays attention to my neck, especially the back of my neck and my hair—putty in his hands I tell ya. I love when a man goes down on me, if he knows what he is doing. I like when foreplay begins with a whisper in public and the anticipation builds until you are alone. Sorry to say this, but size does matter to me. I’m not saying I need huge, but something that, well, can be felt at least. If it’s not there but the skills are then I could possibly make an exception.
--Grace, 26

Good= slooooooooow start
Bad= slobbery, loose-lipped kissing –or- unbrushed teeth
--Sarah, 34

I like being introduced to risqué situations by being asked before it actually happens.
--Jacqui, 29

Best story of what not to do…my friend was with a guy, a white guy, and he kept asking her how she liked his big black cock.
--Heather, 29

I’m turned off by men who, while having sex, get sensitive and say mushy, lovey sentiments that they would NEVER say anywhere else. I like my man to be a MAN and let the testosterone take over.
--KC, 31

Turn-ons…strong forceful kisses, a man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to tell you what to do and what to stop doing. Turn-offs…the ULTIMATE turn-off, in my book, is the “I want a blow job, but I am too big of a pussy to ask” head push. You know the one…you’re making out and all of a sudden the hand behind your head is pushing your chin towards his crotch—ALL WITHOUT SAYING A WORD!
--Ruby, 26

Likes: not on top (I know this is weird, I think it is a liking feeling mushed thing, like lots of down comforters in the winter). Tickling: the playful kind (even with clothes on). Rhythm (enough said). Fluffy hair, everywhere…so cute. Dislikes: tongue in the ear—all wrong. When boys have long fingernails…that can be uncomfortable…in some spots. Springy stiff hair, everywhere…all wrong—use conditioner!
--Lucy, 26

So there you go…what women really want. Tongue, no tongue. On top, on the bottom. Testosterone driven, sentimental. Each woman is an adventure—a mystery to unlock. The only way that a man can possibly know what a woman wants is to ask that woman. I can pretty much guarantee this: you take the time to ask your partner what she wants and she’s going let you in on a few secrets…not to mention, return the favor. Have fun!

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