Tips for Hotter Distancing, or for Your LDR!

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Distance in relationships has had new meaning since covid, but it still is something that can truly make or break a couple. It's the ultimate test, they can be time-consuming, awkward, and at times, lonely. But just because you're apart from each other doesn't mean that you can't still spice things up every once in a while with amazing long distance intimacy! If sex is important to your relationship, keep the spark alive with these long distance relationship sex tips!

Communication

If you find yourself talking frequently, try to create a little excitement by creating space between communication. Don't get gamey with this! Just check-in and send a sexy text saying you are busy getting ready to send a little something to them. Taking time away from each other can feel very exciting!

Video Date

Before getting down to business and having some LDR video sex, (no screenshots, please!) dress the bed in silky sheets, clear the side tables or mantle and fill them with candles, and of course, put on your sexiest lingerie under a slinky or skin-tight outfit. Perform a striptease and make your lover work for it, or put on a little sexy mutual masturbation show! You can hear and see each other while you self-pleasure. Doesn’t seem quite so lonely now, does it?

Send Sexy Gifts

If writing isn’t your forte, but you still want to convey a message through the mail, send some gifts! You can play the romantic card with some flowers and chocolates, or ship away something sexy with a quick note. Doordash a lilttle something to surprise them!

Write a Love Letter

Handwritten letters are also fantastic at slowing your mind down so that you are not falling into the trap of over-communication. You only have a few pages and so much ink to tell your love how you feel. Break out that thesaurus and get to it! 

Write An Erotic Letter

Step away from the 2-second response time of texting or sexting and pen something really steamy to your lover to get you both in the mood for long distance relationship sex! Need some help crafting a raunchy and stimulating letter? If you search for erotica on Google you'll find plenty of inspiration.

Create Your Own Sexy Content

Use an app to string together a little collage of sexy and seductive images. You can even just send a nice sweet “kiss” picture if you prefer not to show too much skin. It is up to you, do whatever you're comfortable with.

Another tip to try is to take a cute or sexy little video and send it out to your lover. Send sexy stripteases or even a little video of you stroking your penis or clit (even clothed!) while you look through the pictures your partner has sent to you throughout the day. These things can keep us connected visually and sexually before, during, and after long distance sex. Just remember to delete the videos and pics you don’t want other people to find!

How Do You Keep Your LDR Sexy? Let Us Know In The Comments!


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  • JH1410

    We’ve been apart almost 6 months. 6….long….damn….months…..!!!! He was supposed to come home in December and Covid screwed that up. At times I feel like I’m going to explode or go crazy. He feels the same way. What we do I write sexual fantasies to each other. Things we actually want to do. This helps a lot. We also tell each other how we feel in every way, sometimes seriously and other times thru dirty jokes and memes. I’m really hoping he is home soon. We may stay in bed for days!


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