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Posted by TooTimid Staff on 6/2/2010 to Info on Sex Toys
Lately I have been hearing that the Threesome movement is back in full swing (pun intended). I think it is due to the general restlessness of monogamous couples and a deep desire to ‘spice things up.’ I also think that bi-sexualism – especially in women – is more prevalent now and it is safer to express these feelings than it was many years ago. In any case, threesomes are on the rise!

As a woman who has had a few threesomes during her heyday, I can say that toys can be an integral and very fun part of any threesome experience. While you may be thinking: “Mikayla, if there are 3 people involved, why in the world would you NEED toys?” Well, the answer to that is simple: you don’t NEED toys, but sometimes they might help – and, hell, they are FUN! So, let’s explore some fun and flirty ideas to bring merge toys and threesomes!


Menage a trios Must Haves…


Safety First!

Yes, before you play you must think about the after affects. Depending on your level of knowledge with all the players, you MUST have condoms and DENTAL DAMS. The last thing you want to get from your Threesome is a disease or a pregnancy. Play safe!

Lube it up:

Yes, LUBE, LUBE, LUBE. You will most likely be needing lube at some point of the game, and lubes are essential for fun play. I suggest getting a standard water-based lube of quality, such as Hydra Lube, TooTimid Pleasure Gel or Wet Lube. These are great, toy friendly lubes. Now, if you are going to be having some anal action (and, the chances are you may) then I suggest a nice silicone lube, such as Swiss Navy or Eros Bodyglide. Both standard choices.


TWO CHICKS AND ONE...


Statistically, the most popular ‘type’ of threesome is FFM (female – female – male). Why? Well, what man doesn’t fantasize about having 2 women at his beck and call – or just watching them beck and call each other? So, let’s do the math: in this scenario, there are 2 Vaginas and 1 penis – so, someone always gets slighted, right? Sure, you can use fingers and tongue – and definitely DO that – but what if you want to, let’s say, all get off together with stimulation – then what? Well, here are a few ideas:

Veined Double Header: This is the absolute perfect time to try out a double-dildo. This brilliant toy inserts into one woman and turns instantly into a ‘penis replica.’ So, let’s say that in your FFM scenario the girls are playing alone – USE THIS TOY. Or, if it is time to finish up – the grand finale, as it were – one girl slips in the Share Dildo and pleasures girl #2 while the man positions himself somewhere in the mix.

Good Vibrations…or Not:

Personally, I think that any good relationship or threesome needs a Vibrator or a Dildo. The possibilities are endless for him or the ‘hers’ Having an extra penetrative device and /or vibration rendering pal is essential for optimal pleasure. In English you say? It is fun to tease and tantalize each other with Vibrators and Dildos – plus, the visual for those not participating at the moment is always stimulating. I suggest a standard vibe like 10 Function Clit Hummer – or the Sorority Party Vibrator. If you prefer insertion only – then get a realistic penis – like the Real Man Cyberskin or the All American Whopper. If you really want a quality item that is good for all sorts of fun, invest in a glass dildo – like the Topsy Turvy.

Bullet the Blue Sky:

Finally, the last MUST HAVE toy for a FFM threesome is a vibrating bullet! Bullets are equal opportunity pleasure devices. They can be used ALLLLL over the body – male or female – and help to bring more orgasms to the party. My favorite, all time bullet is the Twin Pleasure Vibrator. It just has the best bang for the buck. However, almost any bullet will do.


DICK, DICK and JANE


Choice #2 for a threesome is obviously MMF – male, male, female. Here we have a whole host of options for pleasurable playing. Of course, the above suggestions work well in this situation as well – as bullets and vibrators really do add some punch to the party. However, you most likely will not be needing an extra appendage (aka a dildo) unless the two males are planning on being with each other – then an added male fill-in may be necessary.

My best suggestions for this type of threesome – BESIDES Lube, Lube, Lube – is edible body gels. Flavored Love Drops or Kama Sutra Oils of Love can definitely add a little fun to any threesome set-up. Think about smearing a lovely scented and deliciously edible lube all over each other than licking it off in a sweaty mixture of body parts. Yummy!

When I think 2 men and 1 gal I often think…

Bondage: Not sure why….well, yes I am, but that is another article all together. I think of a woman LOVINGLY tied down and being mercilously teased to pleasure cliffs unknown.

A simple Blindfold can bring a bunch of new sensations to the party.

So could Furry Handcuffs or any combination of Bondage Rope or Tie Up Kits. Think of the possibilities here!

Remember: bondage play is serious business, so make sure all participants are comfortable and prepared as well as never participate in play that is not 100% consensual.


BOYS AND BOYS AND GIRLS AND GIRLS


Of course, there is always the possibility of an all girl or all boy cast of players. In which case and or all of the above suggestions could be mixed and matched to handle any situation. The fact is, sex toys and intimate products bring a whole new level of fun to any erotic experience. From teasing and tantalizing to rendering huge orgasms – sexual enhancement products are a must have at any threesome or moresome – as well as for couples alone!

In closing, always remember to be sensible and safe when participating in ANY sexual experience. Sex is fun, fabulous and wonderful – but no sex is worth a disease! Know who you are playing with and take precautions – particularly, Condoms. Always participate in consensual sex – and make sure that all participants are comfortable and aware.

Also, if you feel unsure about whether a threesome is right for you – talk to your partner. Perhaps this is one fantasy that should remain so. If you just can’t get it out of your mind – there are ways to have a threesome experience without a third person – you just have to imagine the ……possibilities!

Have fun – play safe!


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