How to Help Her Orgasm | Tips From Female Adult Toy Professionals
Reaching climax for some women from sex can be an on-going, annoying battle. For many women, it can be quite a lengthy ordeal and some men even get a bit frustrated in the process, but it's like 'hey I'm trying here!' For other women, the first one may come quickly but subsequent orgasms can be much more difficult to reach. A combination of toys and the right moves can be exactly what she needs for a juicy orgasm! Since part of the goal of sex is to have an orgasm, wouldn’t you like to know some ways to help her achieve it faster? Here are some ways to get there!
HEALTH & RELATIONSHIP BENEFITS OF AN ORGASM
Relieves stress and improves your overall mood.
Known to help people fall asleep and sometimes stay asleep.
Orgasms can bring both of you closer together as a couple.
DON'T UNDERESTIMATE FOREPLAY
Women need foreplay. Yes, sometimes it is nice to just get down and dirty, but overall foreplay is the perfect way to get her really aroused. Tons of deep, passionate kissing, combined with some serious groping and fondling is just the beginning of getting things going. Move on to feeling her all over her body, removing her clothing slowly, kissing down her entire body and waiting to hit those hot-spots until the very last second! The more aroused she is, the faster she is going to go over the edge. You want her to cum quickly then arouse her to an almost uncomfortable state before penetration!
USE YOUR TONGUE AND MOUTH ON HER CLIT
Oral sex feels amazing - let's just say it now. The mere thought of a tongue against her clit or around her vagina makes most women melt! When I say get serious, I'm SERIOUS. Sometimes it's hard to know exactly how long to go for, or what exactly is doing the trick, but really try to focus! Get between her legs, make her comfortable, use every oral trick in the book. A big turn is using your fingers in combination with oral too! Insertion plus clitoral stimulation almost can help her orgasm! Pay attention to what makes her writhe beneath you. Go for those little tongue moves that make her tremble! Get serious about her orgasm and she is more likely to cum faster!
TRY TALKING DIRTY
Women are extremely auditory – and we love to hear that you are enjoying us. When you talk dirty to us during sex we are much more likely to get amped up quickly and, therefore, orgasm more quickly. Tell us how good we smell, or how fantastic we taste. Describe how amazing your cock feels inside of us. Make us feel like the most desired woman on the face of the earth and do it with a dirty note! Just be careful you don’t get TOO raunchy!
DO NOT NEGLECT THE CLIT
Statistically speaking, upwards of 85% of all women NEED clitoral stimulation to orgasm. The clitoris is made up of the most nerve endings in the vagina, think of it as the pleasure center! This means even if she is enjoying sex and penetration with you, she will likely not be able to orgasm without this kind of stimulation. If you simply reach down and finger her during sex, or use a vibrating cock ring, then she will come to climax more quickly for sure!
TRY A VIBRATOR
As stated above, women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm at all AND most women will orgasm at least twice as fast when sex is combined with some clitoral action. Add in clitoral action with a rapidly vibrating toy like a bullet and you have a super recipe for success! If she responds well to fingering her clitoris during sex then bring some battery-powered options to the party and watch her cum even FASTER!
PUT HER IN CONTROL
When a woman is able to go at her own pace, pick the depth that is best for her, and rub her clitoris against you in the way she desires then she is more likely to orgasm in general as well as more quickly. It stands to reason that when we can bring pleasure to ourselves in a way we desire that we will climax more quickly.
STIMULATE HER EVERYWHERE
Sometimes during sex, we tend to concentrate on just the “hot zone” spots and ignore other possible erogenous zones. If you get her going with more than one of her spots at the same time then sex becomes MORE pleasurable. This means kissing her neck, pulling her nipples, caressing her neck, running your fingers over her face. Just make contact with her in all different ways to make her body extra sensitive!
DON'T BE AFRAID OF ROMANCE
Being in love is its own aphrodisiac! Being told we are loved during sex will heighten our sexual response tenfold. Being romantic during sex by looking lovingly into your lover’s eyes, telling her that you love her, reminding her how sexy and beautiful she is all feeds into her emotional being and causes extra arousal and extra arousal means getting to orgasm more quickly! So, slow down, enjoy the ride and tell her how much she is loved!
BE JUST THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF DOMINANT
Women get very turned on knowing that they are desired and being dominant in the bedroom can be an extreme turn on for some women. Perhaps a little hair pulling, a smack on the ass or even a little light bondage can turn the ordinary Friday night sex into something a lot different and different can be very, very exciting! Women and men both respond to variation when it comes to sex and women can and often do respond very crazily to a dominant partner. It is worth a shot and it can be super fun for both of you!
I’ve been married for 38 years and my wife decided she might need to see another woman and I am finding it very hard to take that she was always told that if it ever happened it was to happen between both of us and she been there done that about nine times. Don’t know what to do.
I love doing oral on girls! I love it when they shake from their orgasms! :-)
I ijoyed your comments on helping women get an origasom.if you could please help me with more nollege
we live with our two monkey’s and twin parakeets. usually when we start getting the action on i start with a vibration toy and about 2 minutes in our fun time the parakeets always start chirping “FUCK FUCK FUCK!” from their cage and that is the que for the monkeys to come swinging in i believe. My wife loves our animals cheering us on while we do the dirty. i recommend getting some parakeets for the corner of your room to do the que for another animal in your household to come cheer you on and your partner on during the deed. Seriously my wife loves it she screams with joy every time.
What if she doesn’t like to kiss, she doesn’t like me giving her oral, she just kinda lays there. She doesn’t like my touching her outside the bedroom. I’ve tried to talk to her but she just says she doesn’t know why but nothing changes. What can I do
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