4 Blowjob Positions to Blow Your Partner Away

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Image of two men laying in bed together before oral sex

There can never be enough articles on giving blowjobs, can there? Everyone wants to know how to give a good one, what techniques to use, and what positions are the best. Next time you want to go down and dirty on your partner, try one of these fun positions to shake it up.

Different positions can make the oral sex feel different and more exciting. Surprise your partner by trying something new and adventurous. For blowjob giving, a change in position will change the depth that the penis can slide into your mouth or throat. Certain positions offer a more comfortable way to add in hand movements or allow your partner to buck into your mouth. So, obviously, it is to both of your benefit to change things up for variety. So, what are some variations on the blowjob theme? Read on to find out!

1. Lick 'Em Side Saddle

We often think of giving a BJ while your partner is lying on their back and you kneel or lay in between their legs. A variation on this basic position is to come at your partner from the side. Kneel with your butt somewhat even to their hips and lean over them. This position offers a sort of “side” entrance to your mouth, and even better, it offers your partner the access to your genital area. This can greatly heighten their excitement and yours.

2. Laid Back

This position is often toted as “the beginner’s position for deepthroating” because it makes sliding your partner's penis down your throat much easier due to the natural flex of the throat. I’m talking about you lying on your back, your head dangling off the side of the bed. As your head tips back it opens your throat (just like in a medical procedure when they are tubing a patient). Your lover can then slide their penis into your mouth and down your throat as deeply as you can take it – which will be considerably deeper than in other positions.

3. Couch Potato

Have you ever been sitting on the couch with your lover, watching a movie and just had that desire to suck them off? Well, why wait? Just slide on down between their legs and get into it! The angle is perfect for really getting busy with your partner's penis, it is comfortable for both parties. Your partner can grab your hair, hold your head or just buck up into your mouth. You can use your hands and your mouth – with full access. Also, if you so desire, you can transition into the lick them side saddle position by getting up on the couch and kneeling next to them.

4. Showering Them With Attention

This one goes under the heading of “spontaneously sexy” because it is a spontaneous thought. Imagine you are in the bathroom and your lover is showering. You peek in to see them all lathered up with soap. You have the urge to get in the shower with your partner and give him a nice shower blowjob. Shower oral is fantastic on so many levels. First you have the nice, warm water flowing down both of your bodies. Then you have the perfect place to sit or kneel for comfort. Finally, your partner is as clean as clean can be – which can be extremely attractive when thinking about putting their private part into your mouth! Shower blowjobs are less about the position and more about the spontaneity and the extra sensations. Definitely a must do!

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16 comments


  • Uncle Tony

    Btw, which is better, hard and fast or slow and easy? And guys, always give the option of spit or swallow. I’ve had partners that did both. Some liked the taste of cum and some could not jump up fast enough to get to the bathroom and rinse out their mouth. Comments please.


  • Uncle Tony

    I think 69 is the best. Everyone plays and gets pleasured.


  • Tiger Stripes

    I love to give my husband head. It’s such a turn on to have his penis in my mouth. Makes me wet just thinking of it. I’m partial to the side saddle position so he can dip a finger into my pussy and feel me getting wetter and wetter as I suck on him. I like to make him rock hard then ride him.


  • Zora

    I love going down on my man and he loves when I do however, i think he’s embarrassed to explode in my mouth. We’ve talked about it and it’s come close a couple of times but he never does. I’m not sure what to say or do but it’s become a turn off for me and now I just avoid doing it . Any advice?


  • Zora

    I love going down on my man and he loves when I do however, i think he’s embarrassed to explode in my mouth. We’ve talked about it and it’s come close a couple of times but he never does. I’m not sure what to say or do but it’s become a turn off for me and now I just avoid doing it . Any advice?


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