Anal Sex Toys Primer
What are anal toys?
In the most basic form, anal toys are adult toys that are used to
stimulate the nerve endings that are associated with the anus and
rectum. These toys are commonly referred to as butt plugs, anal
beads, anal dildos, and anal vibrators. Anal toys give us the opportunity
to explore the high concentration of nerve endings in the rectum
as well as the prostate. Many of us were raised with the belief
that the anus is a dirty and taboo environment, but few of us were
taught that the anus is also an erogenous zone for both women and
men.
How
do I use anal toys?
Most
importantly you want to use a toy that has some sort of handle or
base that will not allow the toy to completely penetrate your anus.
Never use any sharp objects in and or around your anus. Then you
will need to relax and make sure that you use plenty of lubricant.
The most popular lubricants that we have are here. Be sure to take
it slow and easy while trying to follow the natural path of your
rectum as you insert the toys. If there is pain beyond what you
would expect, remove the object and try again later when you can
relax more. Finally, if you are going to be sharing the toys with
other people be sure to place a condom over the toy and change the
condom when switching it between people.
What
are anal beads?
The most basic way I can explain what anal
beads are is to have you think of marbles that are attached
to a string. Typical anal beads will have anywhere from 5 to 12
beads that are all connected via a string or a rubber cord. The
diameter of the beads normally range from 1/8th of an inch up to
a full inch. To get a better understanding of what anal beads look
like, take a peek at the Crystal Beads. When using anal beads, be
sure to lubricate both the beads and the anus. One by one insert
the beads into your anus. Once you have inserted them all, or as
many as you are comfortable with, remove one or two beads or the
entire strand by pulling on the handle. This feeling of removing
the beads will produce an intense and pleasurable sensation.
What
are anal dildos?
Anal dildos are dildos that are designed specifically for the anus.
While any dildo could be inserted into the anus, anal dildos are
generally a little bit more slim, thus enabling greater comfort.
In addition to being a bit more slim, they will often have some
sort of handle or wide base to prevent them from completely entering
the anus. A very popular anal dildo that vibrates as well is the
Anal Ecstasy. If you are interested in something a little more basic,
you should take a look at the Puregel Plunger. As with anal beads,
if you are going to be sharing your anal dildo with others, be sure
to place a condom over the dildos and change the condom when exchanging
it between partners.
What
is a butt plug?
A butt
plug is typically made out of a rubber or jelly-like material.
Normally these plugs are 3-6 inches long and ½ of an inch to 2 inches
in width. To get a basic idea of the design and shape of a butt
plug take a look at this soft, pliable plug. Your basic butt plug
is non-vibrating and made of rubber. For those of you that are looking
for a plug that is more appealing to the eyes, you should look at
the jelly butt plugs. If you want to take it to the next level to
add lots of excitement to anal play, I would highly recommend the
vibrating butt plugs.
What
sort of anal toys should I shop for?
The most important factor to remember when shopping for a sex toy
is to select something that is a realistic size for inserting into
your anus. Do not buy something huge. Secondly, you want to select
a toy that meets your needs. Are you looking for something that
will give you the sensation of being full? Are you looking for something
that you know is there, but it is slim and un-intrusive? Are you
looking for something that gives you multiple entry and exit sensations?
Whatever you choose, especially if you are a beginner, be sure to
select something that is not hard, spiked, or the size of a fist.
You do want to look for anal toys that have handles or large bases
to ensure that they do not get lodged in the rectum, toys that are
pliable and soft to the touch, and finally toys that are sturdy
(not hard) so that they can be easily inserted.
View our complete
anal
toys section here.